MIDDLE AGEish
Authentically and unapologetically keeping it real, discussing all things Middle Age (ish), when metabolism slows and confidence grows. Middle Age(ish): A time of transition from dreaming of who we will grow up to be and looking at the legacy we will leave behind. Listen to this podcast and join the hosts of Middle Age(ish) as they sit around with a glass of wine to discuss all things related to middle age with some amazing guests!
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Sofa Talk: Unexpected Encounters, Fame's Facade, and Hilarious Hypotheticals
Ever bumped into someone you know in the most unexpected places, like a patient at Disney or a buddy on a TV show? Join us as we kick off with our quirky tales of recognizing familiar faces out of the usual context—it's as funny as it is strange! We also stumble upon a lively conversation about Mormon culture and the unexpected intersections between personal and professional worlds. From elevator-awkward to laugh-out-loud moments, our chat promises a delightful mix of humor and reflection you won't want to miss.
Shifting gears, we navigate the glitzy yet precarious terrain of fame, power, and wealth. The entertainment industry’s darker side comes to light as we ponder the moral pitfalls when stars are surrounded by yes-people. We touch on the uncanny world of AI technology mimicking celebrity voices—imagine Justin Bieber in your living room! Anticipate some eyebrow-raising revelations about the realities behind celebrity glamour and the hidden truths that fame can often mask.
For a lighter twist, we indulge in hilarious "Would You Rather" scenarios, exploring bizarre hypotheticals that reveal our quirkiest sides. Whether it’s dreams that take a creepy turn into sleep paralysis, tales of embarrassing nights, or the art of blame-shifting those unexpected farts, we cover it all with laughter and candid anecdotes. And yes, we’ve all had those cringeworthy social media moments. Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we tackle life's awkward, strange, and downright amusing middle-age-ish adventures.
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Welcome to the Middle Age-ish Podcast. Authentically and unapologetically, keeping it real, discussing all things Middle Age-ish, a time when metabolism slows and confidence grows. Join fashion and fitness entrepreneur Ashley Badowski, former Celtic woman and founder of the Lisa Kelly Voice Academy, lisa Kelly licensed psychologist and mental health expert, dr Pam Wright and highly sought after cosmetic injector and board certified nurse practitioner, trisha Kennedy-Roman. Join your hosts on the journey of middle-age-ish.
Speaker 3:Hello and welcome back to another episode of Middle-Age-ish. I'm Trisha Kennedy-Roman and I'm joined here today with my co-host, ashley Badowski, lisa Kelly and Dr Pam Wright, so thank you for joining us for our sofa talk, yay.
Speaker 2:These are my favorite. I love these, yes, because they're so random.
Speaker 4:One never knows what we're going to talk about.
Speaker 3:Yes, never know, nope really fast.
Speaker 2:You did, because we're talking about You're so professional Seriously, like I know, like the times that I've had.
Speaker 5:Thank you very much, You're welcome. She could say that in her sleep probably. I know Seriously Like.
Speaker 2:I put like the times that I've had her introduce somebody. I'm like I have it on my phone.
Speaker 3:I'm like I looked at Pam and I'm like God knows, I don't have a problem talking Like that's not my problem.
Speaker 2:But yeah, like I really did, I was like uh, okay, so anyway yeah.
Speaker 4:I'm not good with. I'm not good with names outside of like where we're supposed to be. So I can remember everybody when I'm in the studio, but when I go out and I see them outside, I'm like oh, no, no.
Speaker 5:the worst is when you like recognize someone but you don't know where and you're like how do I know that person?
Speaker 2:How do I?
Speaker 5:know that person.
Speaker 2:How do I know that person? Just panic freeze attack.
Speaker 4:Or do you ever? Well, I think it's even crazier If you go somewhere like Disney or where was this? Oh, when I was in New York, I saw the same people like two or three times in the day in different places.
Speaker 2:That's weird, I think that's just weird, so weird yeah.
Speaker 4:I saw people from Peachtree City in New York in three different places, like all over the city.
Speaker 2:I just don't even know how that's possible.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that is really weird, crazy, crazy. Yeah, there were stalkers or random people that you just see in Disney and then you see them all the time. That happens to me.
Speaker 3:I've seen random patients in other states when I'm like like I was in the bathroom and I think it was Boston and somebody walked out and said you do my Botox.
Speaker 2:I was like I do You're like well, girl, you look fabulous, you look good.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I'm glad that was me Of course I do.
Speaker 4:Speaking of, I saw our one are one of our guests on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Tracy. What.
Speaker 5:What.
Speaker 4:Yes, what Tracy Is it Tracy?
Speaker 2:Anderson.
Speaker 4:Yes, I am shocked.
Speaker 3:Wait, what All right, well, okay, I've been watching that, so that must have been a recent one, because I have.
Speaker 4:It's about the third episode, in third or fourth episode in there's only eight, right, yeah, there they go in to get their Botox and their fillers. It was her place, it's her place. It's Rice. Oh my gosh, I know her, I know her.
Speaker 3:I totally missed that part Wow.
Speaker 2:I've seen the commercial so I'm going to have to start.
Speaker 5:People are addicted to that. My clients say that they watch it all the time, because that's the one with all the young girls. It started like as a TikTok something. Yeah, there were.
Speaker 4:TikToks and sensation. And then there was a big. There was a big drama, but I'm not disclosing anything that you don't learn in like the first 30 seconds of it. There was a big TikTok drama because one of the lead girls in us said that all the wives were swinging, husbands were swinging.
Speaker 3:So it was like Wait so they're not all married, but they were like wasn't it in general swinging or something? Okay, hold on. No, they're married and swinging.
Speaker 5:They're married and swinging, but I thought it was like like not full swinging.
Speaker 4:So this is not sister wives where they're all, like, married to the same guy. They're all married to the same. No, they're just.
Speaker 2:Mormon wives. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like my housewives of Salt Lake City, which, yes, which I okay.
Speaker 4:So they're all married to different guys and apparently one of them was swinging, and then so, really, the whole series starts with the fallout from one of the girls, claiming that they all were swingers. I'm just so on the fence about the whole thing. I hate mocking any religion and I just I don't understand. I don't understand Because it's not. It's like a salacious look into LDS Right as opposed to I don't know, I really don't know how I feel about it Because it's such a strict.
Speaker 3:It's very strict.
Speaker 2:It's such a protected religion too, exactly, so I don't know how you swing.
Speaker 3:Well, religion too. So I don't know how you swing. I mean, which is? I'm sure that's not condoned.
Speaker 2:No, which is kind of like an oxymoron, because there are those that have, like, the offshoots of LDS, that still believe that you can have multiple wives.
Speaker 5:But yeah, swinging, yeah it's it's just, but can I say this? This is, this is interesting. So on, the housewives of utah select city yeah, so the girl that's one of the main like characters. She drinks diet coke 24 7 and she owns a tequila distillery and that's how they make their money and they're like anti-caffeine yes, well, so they can can have soda.
Speaker 3:They can have soda. They can have soda. Not coffee or tea, okay, but soda they can have. So what's?
Speaker 5:the difference. If it's caffeine, I don't know Okay. But anyway, but she owns like this tequila and it's like this whole thing in the show that you produce alcohol and that's how you make your money, but that's not allowed.
Speaker 4:Well, there's a lot of these girls are drinking as well. So there's like half of them drink, half of them don't. Half of them have tattoos, half of them don't. So there's a lot of the break away from, so there's like a half.
Speaker 2:That is like practicing women.
Speaker 4:Well, they're all practicing, apparently, but there's like I don't know. I'm just I'm going to have to watch it.
Speaker 3:It's really trashy. It's really trashy. It is kind of I like watching the trashy stuff.
Speaker 2:We love reality TV. It just wasn't very well produced.
Speaker 4:It's not like the wives.
Speaker 5:It's like reality though right, supposedly.
Speaker 4:It's kind of like reality and it's more like, maybe, the Bachelorette than it is like the manufactured reality, which even that's saying something.
Speaker 1:They're very pretty.
Speaker 3:I mean, they're very beautiful.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the commercials I've seen because I guess, now that I'm watching Salt Lake City.
Speaker 2:I now see commercials for that all the time.
Speaker 4:They're stunning girls, they're nice girls. It's not like they're not nice girls, they're stunning girls, they're nice girls. It's not like they're not nice girls. And it's just kind of playing up on this whole mean girl kind of thing. And I'm a better Mormon than you, which I found strange because apparently they don't like to be referred to as Mormons either. It's supposed to be.
Speaker 1:LDS Really.
Speaker 4:Yes, and then they use that term themselves.
Speaker 3:So apparently, yeah, it's. Yeah. Wonder like you, like we knew in like high school like sometimes the preacher's kids were like the wildest ones like they have so many rules that that's why they like, try to like break out, yeah, but I suppose they don't really know any different.
Speaker 4:So like if you're growing up in salt lake city, I assume, like the majority are lds, so you don't know any different. But then I think TikTok and social media and everything has brought an outside world in. We didn't have that issue in Ireland because the priests didn't have children, so Well.
Speaker 2:We hope not.
Speaker 4:Well, there's many, many, but yeah, they weren't, you weren't known, it wasn't known that they were. It's just yeah, I really felt on the fence.
Speaker 5:So I wonder how this, how did this become even a show like, do you even know?
Speaker 4:like, it came from their tiktok.
Speaker 2:So their tiktok was so popular that they were approached by whatever company decided to like bravo or something, or I mean, I don't think it's on hulu, it's on hulu.
Speaker 4:I don't think it's. Bravo, yeah, yeah, it's. Yeah, it must. Maybe it's a hulu original. Yeah, um, yeah, just weird. Probably wouldn't think it's it's on Hulu. It's on Hulu, I don't think it's Bravo.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it must. Maybe it's a Hulu original.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah, just weird. Probably wouldn't watch it again. Don't think I'd watch A second season. You wouldn't, no, I don't know. I kind of binged it. I mean I might have to just Take a look.
Speaker 2:I've heard people.
Speaker 3:That's worth taking a look. Okay, so what is that?
Speaker 2:You always know what to watch. I know, I know.
Speaker 5:Lisa should be our informant. What is this?
Speaker 4:No, it's not on the same theme at all. So it's actually it's a rom-com, which I thought was a movie, and I don't do movies because I don't have the brain capacity to sit still that long. However, I did binge like five episodes of it.
Speaker 2:So you actually did watch a movie.
Speaker 1:But it's about a podcaster.
Speaker 4:It's about a sex podcaster, kristen Bell's a sex podcaster, and she goes to a party that looks adorable and she meets Adam Brody, who's a rabbi, and it's all about their relationship, which is just adorable.
Speaker 5:Is this the one where she thinks it's the rabbi, but it's not?
Speaker 1:It's really like the guy that's the jerk. Yes, Okay.
Speaker 5:I saw the first episode. It was really good, so weird. I love her. She's funny, she is fabulous.
Speaker 4:She's so fabulous, but you've seen the whole thing.
Speaker 3:I've seen the whole thing. Is it good? Yeah, it's so good.
Speaker 5:It's so worth the watch. It's just easy because I'd watched the Menendez brothers before that, so I was like still.
Speaker 4:I don't know what I believe. I actually don't know what I believe. I came away thinking that they may have made it all up.
Speaker 3:That. I don't, I don't know, if they were abused.
Speaker 5:I don't know, though, I mean, they just seem so I mean, but there was some letter that apparently there was a letter that one of them wrote to the other one that they found, or someone to a cousin. Yeah, apparently eight months beforehand.
Speaker 4:But it was just they had tried to get all their friends to say thus the father had abused them and all the friends as well.
Speaker 5:Like it was just there was just somebody that was because he was a music producer or something, I think. But there was like someone who came out and said that he did sexually abuse or assault him or something. I don't know, I don't know, and in the news Diddy stuff.
Speaker 3:Oh my gosh, I don't want to even go there.
Speaker 2:It's the craziest thing ever. It's horrible.
Speaker 4:I think that one is totally horrible. Everybody knew, though, apparently.
Speaker 2:Everybody knows. That's what's so shocking. Shocking is that the veil has come down and the way that you see all of that, like you start to question everything, like you heard the rumors with Whitney Houston, you heard it with Prince, you heard it with Michael Jackson, but it was just these fabrications. No, this was just a tragic situation.
Speaker 3:Justin Timberlake's song that they were playing the lyrics, and when you hear it now, it's so sad.
Speaker 2:Oh no, that's Justin Bieber. Sorry, justin Bieber. Yes, I actually feel so horrible for that man.
Speaker 4:Oh my gosh. Well for all of them Wait for what man Like.
Speaker 3:Justin Bieber Justin Bieber Because of the whole situation.
Speaker 5:them Wait for what man Like. Justin Bieber Justin Bieber Because of the whole situation.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because I mean per the reports allegedly he was a little kid when he first started, usher had taken parental, was given parental control and then gave it to Diddy for 48 hours that first weekend and it was a lot ditty for 48 hours that first weekend.
Speaker 5:But I think people now that they're I mean not to be that person, but that there's cameras everywhere I think that women feel more safe to come out and say things because they're, I mean when you see video evidence like what you see, how do you dispute? Like someone beating someone in an elevator or someone beating someone.
Speaker 2:I think that's how he got so. But but in the flip side of that, which is going to be his downfall but that's per allegedly that's how he got all of the control is he has video tapes, oh yeah.
Speaker 5:But when you see someone like beating someone like that, how do you even it?
Speaker 2:just I can't my mind can't go that way.
Speaker 4:I think there's a sense when you have that much money and you have that much ego there's a huge sense of power that you feel and I really feel with a lot of superstars.
Speaker 4:They surround themselves with yes, people, because they're paying people so much that they won't say no to them. So, no matter what you do, you want to keep. I worked with a man years ago who always said to me never pay people so much that they can't afford to leave Right, because then they're not there for the reasons they want to be there. They're there because you're paying them so much, and I think that's what happens to people in, especially in the music industry, especially in the music industry.
Speaker 2:And I think that's when evil comes into it, because evil is a huge player in all of this. Like to do the things that has been alleged with multiple different levels of it. I mean, it's you get to a point where the corruption Well, you think about Matthew Perry and now who's like responsible?
Speaker 5:like, because his assistant was the one giving him the injections and he kept asking for the injections and I think they knew that this was not correct, but yet he's asking for it and he they work for him. I mean, it just becomes gonna get forward, yeah, yeah doctor thing, but he did guilty as well. One of the doctors yeah, 100, but it's like I would rather hire someone who's like hey, like, like, enough, like if I would, if you're out drinking and you're making a fool of yourself or whatever you want that friend who's like, hey, come on, yeah drink water.
Speaker 5:Let's cut it off, let's go, let's leave and not just like hey, we're gonna do what they're saying, because they're they're, they're way above me and I'm just gonna keep doing what they tell me to do. Yeah, and that right, that's.
Speaker 4:I never trust anyone who agrees with me all the time. Yeah.
Speaker 3:No, you know it's crazy. So I was just trying to find this lyrics till I tell you guys about, like, what I heard and it was lost myself at a diddy party, didn't know how it was go, how it go.
Speaker 3:I was in it for a new Ferrari but it cost me way more than my soul lyrics, and I've heard it in justin bieber's voice, but in snopes it said that there's common, they've reached out to justin bieber's camp and that some people are saying that it might be ai generated and that's freaky how ai like you can hear, because I've heard it and sound like his voice, but I've heard taylor swift's song like singing about travis kelsey breakup, who's definitely wasn't her, and how ai can, I think I mean, and I wouldn, I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if it was AI, but I do think that it's there's truth to whatever happened.
Speaker 2:I mean cause you can just look at, yeah, I mean so again, that is one instance where it could be AI, but I do think that it that it's actually based in truth, and I think that probably more stuff is going to come out. Well, we'll just it'll depend on just how far up.
Speaker 4:They've already said that there is a megastar who is about to be exposed.
Speaker 5:Wow, I kind of hope. So Like related to this.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, they say it goes all over the place.
Speaker 5:That's so sad.
Speaker 3:It's crazy, just how, when you get to that level. How warped things can get. Yes, I'm glad I've not ever been at that level.
Speaker 4:Yeah, again, it's money and power. It's just money and power, it's like, and I think it's at every level.
Speaker 2:Don't you sometimes wonder like, are we, like, is this reality? Like, are we actually seeing what is reality? Because it's crazy.
Speaker 4:It is crazy, but it doesn't surprise me. I mean, when you think, when you think, like, when I think back of the amount of rooms that I was in with men who, like, were of a different level to what I was at Right, you were always exposed and I think we were just, I know, certainly I was that like you're a people pleaser and you're doing what you're told and you're used to doing what you're told, but like you're totally taken advantage of and I think, when that goes, even when you're naive, and then when it goes a little bit higher.
Speaker 4:So, like I remember thinking about Matt Lauer, no-transcript Left the Today Show. Was it ABC?
Speaker 2:NBC Today Show, wasn't it? Yeah, Today Show.
Speaker 4:That's what the whole morning show is based on the whole show.
Speaker 3:I have no idea.
Speaker 4:So it's in every industry.
Speaker 2:I think power corrupts in 90% of the cases.
Speaker 3:Absolutely Money.
Speaker 2:Well look, at people who win the lottery like how many of their lives? Oh, I know, and they're bankrupt in like two to five years and they could win like hundreds of millions of dollars and they're bankrupt in five years.
Speaker 4:It's the root of all evil, I tell you, but I guarantee you.
Speaker 5:We all have stories about being taken advantage of and power differential.
Speaker 3:I know I do Multiple. No, I think I've been pretty sheltered. I guess oh gosh, now I can write about. Ashley and I are from Missouri.
Speaker 2:I know, and I got married. I mean I did See, that's the thing. Like I got married young and I mean you can look back and be like, oh OK, so maybe that boss was being a little extra flirty, but then you know what I'm saying Like my life navigated differently and I had Steven and it changed the complete path of my life. So yeah, I don't I mean but, but I don't doubt it at all, like at all. It's just, I think, because again, my, my journey went in a completely different way. Yeah, so I wasn't necessarily exposed to that.
Speaker 5:Yeah yeah, I'm just glad that people are speaking out so much more than necessarily exposed to that. Yeah yeah, I'm just glad that people are speaking out so much more than they used to, cause I feel like back in the day you couldn't really speak out.
Speaker 5:I remember going to another professor and they were just like you know what, you really don't need to say anything because they're tenured and so nothing will happen. I remember having that conversation and just being like oh okay, nothing to say. What are you going to say? Nothing's going to happen, so keep your mouth shut. I just think that was the message back in the day.
Speaker 3:Oh God yeah.
Speaker 5:Yeah 100%.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's mad.
Speaker 1:It's mad, but it'll be interesting to see Video is good to have.
Speaker 5:Video is absolutely. You can't dispute that right. Text messages.
Speaker 4:Trail of text messages, Like it's going to be interesting Technology. It's going to be huge.
Speaker 2:So do you think, because this is kind of like I waver Do you think it's ever going to? Because they say it's like Jeffrey Epstein, times 20. Do you think it's ever going to see the light of day? Because, oh, yes, I think so.
Speaker 3:I think he'll talk.
Speaker 2:I think that's what I that my concern is. Is that okay? So supposedly he's not even a like a top tier. He just so the ones that are top tier. But think about what would you do to like stop it from happening.
Speaker 3:Wait, so he isn't the top tier, no.
Speaker 5:But the thing is that they talk like if I turn in Lisa, then she'll get lesser. If we're reporting you, I mean don't get me wrong. I hope he sings like a canary Me too, because I think the whole thing. Everybody wants him later and I think he's evil. And I think that he deserves whatever's coming down on him Like I think there's usually somebody above.
Speaker 2:Oh no, From what they say, allegedly like he's not even close to top tier. He just, he just knew to cover himself with the videos. And then that was what then kept everybody in line, and then the videos, and then that was what then kept everybody in line. And then the videos continue to come. Because, right, that's what it's just, it's scary.
Speaker 5:It's scary to think that people prey on people like that, though, isn't it yeah?
Speaker 3:even a psychologist.
Speaker 2:It's very it's very, it's very Evil walks amongst us. I mean it does Like it's like.
Speaker 4:But so much evil. And yes, that's the I think that's the scary part. It's like there's just so much of us, so much of it everywhere and everywhere. School.
Speaker 3:I mean, yeah, school is everywhere. Let's pivot to something more fun.
Speaker 2:Okay, a few times. All right, so we're going to pivot.
Speaker 3:Yes, All right, let me have a little drink to that first.
Speaker 2:All right. Well, let's all take a drink, two, yes.
Speaker 4:Here we go.
Speaker 3:All right, we haven't done, would you rather for a while? Oh God, here we go. I just Googled as we were sitting here. Okay, here's, rather only be able to whisper, or only be able to shout Whisper, whisper, whisper. Okay, that's easy. All right, here's one. This is an unusual one, Although.
Speaker 4:Do you ever have that dream, though, that you're like you're trying to warn somebody of something and you can't shout no?
Speaker 2:that's not Okay. I actually have not had that.
Speaker 4:Dream it when you're trying to get someone's attention and you can't show.
Speaker 3:I just had my most dramatic is when I, like, went to school with no clothes on. Do you guys ever have that dream? No, okay.
Speaker 2:I've had a dream where I went to school and didn't have shoes, and then I couldn't find my locker and I forgot my locker.
Speaker 3:I've had like straight up, like going to school naked.
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh, I thought that was normal. We should talk about this later.
Speaker 3:All right, all right, back to our pivot. Here's one. Would you rather always have an eyelash in your eye or always have a hair in your butt? Crack.
Speaker 4:Ew, I have a hair in my butt. Crack, definitely, definitely Hair in my eye.
Speaker 5:Hair in my eye, yeah.
Speaker 2:I don't but.
Speaker 5:You're not going to.
Speaker 2:How would you even feel hair in your booty?
Speaker 3:crack.
Speaker 4:I feel my hair everywhere. My hair falls out, so much Me too.
Speaker 1:I feel it everywhere.
Speaker 4:Oh, my God Shut up oh yeah, when I'm in the shower, there's like hair everywhere. Yeah, I spent half an hour picking hair.
Speaker 3:All right. What the answer for Lisa? But I don't know if it was this. Would you rather only be able to speak in riddles or have to sing every sentence?
Speaker 2:Oh, I want to sing every sentence even though I'm horrible, I do too.
Speaker 3:Even though I'm not good, I actually really view myself as correct.
Speaker 2:Or Lisa.
Speaker 4:You can mime and I'll sing for you.
Speaker 2:I feel like I'm you. Let me just belch out. Oh my gosh, I want a YouTube video of me singing with your voice and I'll be viral.
Speaker 3:That's perfect. Oh, by the way, you want to hear something really sweet? By the way, my mom has trouble sleeping sometimes, right, so I went up. I heard, I heard people talk upstairs. It was really late at night and I went upstairs. I hear Lisa singing on Alexa. My mom was listening to Lisa Kelly's songs.
Speaker 2:You have a gorgeous voice. She was listening to you.
Speaker 3:It's amazing, so I got to walk in and hear Lisa at like 2 am singing.
Speaker 4:That's so sweet she was like listen to.
Speaker 3:Lisa Okay.
Speaker 5:What's next?
Speaker 3:These are really, would you rather. We're all agreeing.
Speaker 4:I think someone was drinking. Where are we? What's next? These are really. Would you rather we're all agreeing, I think someone was drinking.
Speaker 3:Where are we? Okay, I think this is pretty. Would you rather accidentally swallow a spider or a moth?
Speaker 4:Ew Moth. Oh my God, although I think we have all swallowed spiders, because apparently they crawl into your mouth at night. I know that's terrifying. I've never heard that?
Speaker 5:Oh, actually I've heard that that's horrible.
Speaker 3:Never happened. Okay, would you rather have a toe the size of a foot, or a finger the size of a hand Toe the size of a foot?
Speaker 2:Then you could just size up your shoe.
Speaker 5:No, you'd really mess up your whole shoe game. Ashley, yeah, I'm like you.
Speaker 2:We could hide it Can you just have surgery and take it off?
Speaker 4:Exactly. I'm like you, we can hide it. Can you just have surgery and take it off Exactly? Yeah, you can, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3:Speaking of having things taken off, what about extras? Would you rather have an extra arm or an extra leg?
Speaker 4:Extra arm.
Speaker 2:I get so much done. I've had three arms. I have to agree with Lisa on that one, because that would that would throw off my shoe game If.
Speaker 5:I was a guy. I'd say an extra leg. I got run faster, that's what she?
Speaker 3:said Is that an extra leg you have there? Okay?
Speaker 2:Are you just happy to see me? Yes, exactly.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'll give you one more. All right, would you rather have the head a head?
Speaker 2:It's going to be close. Delete, delete, delete. Sleep, okay a head. Oh, it's gonna be close, delete, delete, delete sleep okay, I can't even say it my husband would be like head, please thank you.
Speaker 3:Oh my god, I can't even read read that one.
Speaker 2:Trisha is she's blushing. She is alright. Would you rather have the head the size of a watermelon or a golf ball? Read that one. Trisha is she's blushing.
Speaker 5:She is All right. Would you rather have the head the size of a watermelon or a golf ball? So your head is the size of a watermelon, not the head.
Speaker 4:The head, not the head.
Speaker 5:My head is the size of a watermelon.
Speaker 1:I have a huge head you have a big head.
Speaker 3:I do, I have a big head. I have a huge head. I can't you each had to come wear hats. I'd rather have a hat.
Speaker 5:You would put a golf ball, because you would look like yeah, better than a big bobble hat. That would just yeah, watermelon yeah.
Speaker 3:Watermelon. Okay, so we've agreed on this. This is the first time we've agreed on everyone. That is actually the first time we've.
Speaker 4:And we've learned things.
Speaker 3:Yes, you learned about splinters dreams.
Speaker 5:No, do what no?
Speaker 3:Trisha worst dream is going to school naked. I'm going to have to do a little therapy session after this. Yes, going to school naked, I tell you, mine are always where.
Speaker 2:I go to school and I can't find my locker and I can't remember my locker code and I have to go to the front office and get it and she wore the wrong shoes, I know, and I didn't look fabulous. I didn't have my tan on, I didn't have my great shoes, and then I had to walk down the hallway to the front office.
Speaker 4:My worst recurring dream, which happens a lot.
Speaker 2:We should talk about it. This is a good one.
Speaker 4:I can't get to the stage, like I'm supposed to be on the stage. I'm on next, yeah, and I can't, like I can't get there, I can't get around to the stage. So there's that one, and then there's the one that I'm on stage and I don't know what I'm supposed to sing. Nobody's given me the music, so I don't know what I'm supposed to be singing. They're my, they're my two. It used to be school before I, like, did this for a living. It was like I'd go into an exam and I didn's my recurring wake up in a sweat. My nightmare would be that.
Speaker 1:I was on stage.
Speaker 2:Not that I could go on stage and the light booms, that's crazy, it's naked yeah you're naked.
Speaker 4:But being on stage is the craziest thing because you can't see anybody. So it's not like it really isn't as terrifying as you think it's going to be, because when for the most part like 90% of the time when you walk on stage you can't see people Because the lights are so bright, so you're just standing there.
Speaker 2:It's the craziest thing Well.
Speaker 4:I would be standing there with no talent. You could talk, you could like, stretch your stuff up and down the runway, you could do yeah, do some comedy, yodel, yodel. So there was this All right.
Speaker 2:So what's your Dr Pam? What is your reoccurring dream?
Speaker 5:I don't have reoccurring dreams, but I used to have sleep paralysis. Do you know what that is? It's terrifying, no. So sleep paralysis is where you, so you're always in your, your bed, but there's some dark figure or something oh, I've had that and you can't talk. It's kind of like what you were saying you can't talk, you can't move, you can't yell, but you're always like you're never anywhere else.
Speaker 5:So it's not like a dream where you're like but you see the shadow figure but you see something dark coming at you and it's standing there and you can't say anything. Breathe alert, do anything. Like you're paralyzed, and that is like you're in between that dream state and the awake.
Speaker 2:So where does that come from? Because that's happened to me twice in my life.
Speaker 5:It's just sleep paralysis. It's where your brain waves get caught between going to sleep and still being awake and you're in this kind of transition but you are remembering everything. It of like transition. But you are remembering everything like it's scary, but you can't move I know.
Speaker 2:So, like, where does the shadow figure play into, like your brain waves?
Speaker 5:yeah, it's just always that there's something that you need to like, alert or do something, and you're just very aware that you can't move, that you're paralyzed, yeah, so that's so valid. Like I said, that's happened to me twice in my life and, yeah, very different than sleep terror or sleep where sleep terror is, where you have like horrible dreams and you wake up screaming and you feel like they're real and that kind of thing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's very different.
Speaker 5:But sleep paralysis is terrifying because you're always right there in your bed.
Speaker 2:Well, the shadow figure is so evil Like it just permanates evil. At least it did in my the two times it happened to me. It just permanates evil. At least it did in my the two times it happened with to me.
Speaker 5:Yeah, dark, like I had like hooded, like somebody in, like a hooded thing. I went to my this sounds crazy, but there was a dark and it was like a cat figure. It sounds weird, but it was like running around the ceiling and about to like drop on me. I know it sounds dumb.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, Mine's always just been like a shadow figure, but then it would levitate like right over me.
Speaker 5:Well, and sometimes you're aware like your spouse or your partner is beside you, but you can't alert them and you can't say anything.
Speaker 2:The last time it happened, oh my gosh, it was probably like maybe 15, 16, no, maybe 18, 19 years ago. And yeah, like the shadow figure was coming down the hallway, I was obviously in bed with my husband and it literally Huh, not like the Mormon wives year was coming down the hallway.
Speaker 3:I was obviously in bed with my husband and it literally couldn't huh, not that the Mormon wives, no, no no
Speaker 2:no no, no, no, I don't share. We all know that, guys, I don't share. Are you kidding me? No, and yeah, like it completely levitated and it just was, like it literally permeated such bad energy and I just remembered thinking to myself Ashley, scream, scream, come on. You can do it, wake up. That's the most terrifying thing.
Speaker 5:Oh my gosh, I've actually never talked to somebody who I used to have them all the time.
Speaker 3:I'm thankful for my naked dreams. These are horrible.
Speaker 5:I've never had those dreams, just so you know, and so everyone knows, if you take anything to assist with sleep or anything to help you sleep, your dreams become way more vivid. Not necessarily like sleep paralysis, but you will have much more vivid dreams. I don't know if you've ever noticed that, if you ever take anything to help you sleep, your dreams like so people come and they're like oh, I don't need more vivid dreams.
Speaker 5:I remembered every single thing of my dreams and when I woke up I was thinking about what just happened and I was like that really happens all the time with those medications.
Speaker 2:And then I can't even imagine if I took something, because, holy mother Mary.
Speaker 3:I want to take Lunesta and listen to Matthew McConaughey. Read me a story and we'll see what happens.
Speaker 4:Yeah maybe that'll be your amazing I've never taken a sleeping pill.
Speaker 2:I am so terrified of Lunesta because well, first of all, my body reacts so weird to any type of pharmaceuticals and stuff like that and to any type of pharmaceuticals and stuff like that, and I've heard, like, where people be like pulled over in the middle of their town and their nightgown and they're like I think that's an Ambien thing, more than anything. Oh you're right, that's Ambien.
Speaker 5:Ambien helps you go to sleep, and Lunesta typically keeps you asleep, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1:So Ambien is so you have to take both of them.
Speaker 4:No, no.
Speaker 5:No, no, no one or the other, but Ambien is more where people have trouble falling asleep.
Speaker 1:And.
Speaker 5:Lunesta is like I am waking up every couple hours in the night, so they'll take Lunesta to keep them asleep through the night. They do different things in a way. I mean they're all sleep medications, like Trazodone. I mean there's a lot of sleep medications. Yeah, I have that for the dogs.
Speaker 2:I actually have that for my pup.
Speaker 5:Do they knock out?
Speaker 2:Nope, my Coco does, yeah, my Coco does.
Speaker 5:Tracidone can definitely knock you out, but Lunesta is usually to keep you asleep, so a lot of people, I think, are probably more on the Ambien too.
Speaker 2:They're strong, All right. So yeah, so it was the Ambien, Because I was like, oh my God, I could just see that happening. Right now I'm going to be driving around my hometown Like just trainers.
Speaker 5:Sleepwalking is like terrifying, I've had a roommate or two that was sleepwalking and it is terrifying, cause you wake up and they're like standing right there.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, I would need an exercise. Why are you here? Why are you talking to me? I would need an exercise.
Speaker 3:No, my mom she talks in her sleep. And my, my youngest son he used to like sleep with her when he was little and he was like mom grandma's freaked me out. So when I took her for a birthday to stay, she full on has conversations. Oh, she's probably just in her dream.
Speaker 1:Just talking in her dream.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean she has full on conversations, but it's funny, she gets mad at our dogs a lot in her sleep.
Speaker 1:I learned when we were in a hotel room together.
Speaker 3:She's out of her sleep.
Speaker 1:But yeah, I was like when she first started talking.
Speaker 3:I can't sleep anywhere near him because he like has full conversations.
Speaker 4:That's interesting and he curses so badly in the sleep.
Speaker 2:That's so funny. So, like, who are they talking to? Like, are they really?
Speaker 5:talking. I think in the dream they're just engaged in what's going on.
Speaker 3:But people who sleepwalk that's a whole different level. I think I sleep eat. That's what we do. No, I do I will. That's what we do. So listen my mom I think she always buys crap right and she loves. She thinks she's spoiling the kids, but I'm the one who eats it Because she lives in it, right. So I woke up this morning and I had a plate with like a cherry turnover thing, like half eaten last night.
Speaker 5:I guess I like got in the middle of the night Like I was really tired and got up and I was like I kind of have remembered it, but I like ate, like I have a cherry turnip. There are people who literally have to, like they have to chain their like refrigerator and their cabinets at night, because they will. They will get up in the middle of the night and literally go eat almost everything and have no recollection at all A cherry turnip.
Speaker 4:I get so mad if I have to get up and pee. I see you too.
Speaker 2:I try to talk to myself do you really, do you really?
Speaker 3:I know it's not gonna be a good sleep, I know, but you're still not willing to get out, you're still like nope I'm so comfy, yeah and then you're just like oh, no, do you?
Speaker 5:notice like now it's more and more like okay, it's 3 am, it's 5 am, it's like I'm going now.
Speaker 4:I'm a good sleeper. I was a good sleeper.
Speaker 2:I was a good sleeper until the past three weeks. And then it's 3 am 5 am no, I don't even yeah, like I just get up and make some coffee and then my brain just goes into like so you can't go back to sleep? No, I mean, and I've always been such a good sleeper. But yeah, stress to me like that's where it starts to impact, Is that?
Speaker 2:my sleep and as soon as my eyes pop open, it's just. And why is that? Like, in the middle of the night you can have the same thought process, even if you're stressed, and you're like, okay, well, this is not making sense, but how I'm going to figure it out, whatever. But at night there is no figuring it out. It's so doom and gloom. It's like, oh my, when I'm awake I can figure it out in like two seconds.
Speaker 5:I wouldn't be Lisa, that's because you're you're like exhaustion and when you're sleeping your beta and theta waves are doing like different things and it's just like very difficult to like get back into that. But our bodies are geared to like, okay, let's just go back to sleep. But if you wake up with a thought in your head like oh gosh, I forgot to do this, or what do I have to do tomorrow, and like if you go down that rabbit hole, you're never going to get back to sleep Lately.
Speaker 2:I've even told myself when I wake up okay, you understand that this thought is not going to be a big deal tomorrow at nine o'clock or today. Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 5:One of the best things I tell people to do who have like those racing thoughts and anxiety like 30 minutes before you go to bed, write down like everything in your head that you need to do tomorrow, that you need to get done. That's on your head, it's on your mind, whatever.
Speaker 2:And then don't look at any screen. No TV, no screen. That's what I need to probably stop doing. Anything yeah.
Speaker 5:Read the most boring book you can. Whatever Listen to like a very boring podcast or which is not us, by the way or anything that's like there's so many like sleep, go to sleep. Things on like. Youtube and just like listen to that or read something boring and then just like go to sleep. If you put it out on paper, honestly, it gets out of your head. It really does help.
Speaker 2:Okay, that's amazing. Yeah, so, like I have lately, obviously everyone knows, well, hopefully everyone knows about the horrible situation in North Western North Carolina and. Eastern Tennessee. So I like every night before bed, I watch the reels and I'm just like thinking about them. But yeah, that's like I literally have even told myself when I wake up this is not going to be a big deal at 9 o'clock in the morning, you know this. Like you know that this is going to be fine.
Speaker 5:And I still do, and I hate to say this, but like even now, like before an election before, like with everything going on, there are, like clients that I have to say your assignment is just don't watch TV.
Speaker 2:Just don't watch the media.
Speaker 5:Well, I've stopped watching, except for my housewives, because it gets stuck in your head and you're like hearing about all these deaths. It's doom and gloom it's like subconsciously it just comes in and whatever you're seeing before you go to bed really does affect what you dream. You know what when you're talking about dreams and dark figures you've actually scarred me, ashley.
Speaker 3:Well, you are welcome. So when you? Because the other day we started to watch Dateline. It wasn't a Dateline, but it was like a docu-series on crime things. That's how I feel.
Speaker 2:I do love some crime and relax, but it was about a kid who was possessed and we started to watch it.
Speaker 3:I was like stop, stop, turn off. Ashley says you're bringing bad juju. If it's anything like that I do, I won't watch scary movies anymore that have to do with that kind of thing, because you freak me out with like the 80s, whatever, like the those crazy scary movies Like I don't think that was.
Speaker 2:I mean, obviously it was crazy and psycho or whatever. I do think that scary movies nowadays do have a much darker intent and they're incredibly twisted, and so I think that there's there's definitely a change, and that's where I came to like, okay, I don't want any of that, I will watch my Dateline, I will watch my Law Order, but the scary stuff that's out there, that they make these movies and stuff. I do think that it has taken a much darker turn and just don't put yourself open to that nonsense, because it's totally different than like the Freddy Kruegers.
Speaker 5:Yeah, you need to look back at that and be like, oh my gosh, I was scared of this.
Speaker 2:Like this is funny Like.
Speaker 5:Jaws.
Speaker 2:Jaws is so funny now, yeah, yeah, like the very last scary movie that I watched and I mean I was younger, it was the Exorcist. And I literally remember the thought process Like this isn't right, like this is a freaked out no granted.
Speaker 5:That is like based on a true story, but I think the more things are realistic, the more scary they are for people.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and I think that, like yeah, if you just like you start to learn that, if you open yourself up to even watching something that has such negative energy that because we all I mean we've learned this we're all energy. So you either attract negative, you attract positive, but absolutely not. I will not even open up my house to those crazy things. Nope, nope, never watched them.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Freddie, I've never watched.
Speaker 4:I've never seen the.
Speaker 5:Omen yeah, no, I did. I've never seen the Omen. I've seen, but I don't watch it.
Speaker 2:Nightmare on Elm Street, but that was all in the 80s and my girlfriend and I would have sleepovers and see if we could scare ourselves, of course, I thought about us because there was this saying.
Speaker 5:it was like in the movie I know what you did last summer. If you're our age, it's like no, because I would forget, like I forgot what we did last summer.
Speaker 4:I can't remember what we did last weekend. I don't even remember.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I can't remember last weekend. You're right.
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 3:All right, so I'm going to put back something funny again. So when I did the, Would you Rathers I had these prompts pop up. Okay, but this question I already know the answer for this one Would you win in an arm wrestle? Oh, who would win in an arm wrestle you or the person next to you? Don't piss Lisa Kelly off.
Speaker 2:Lisa Kelly is a freaking badass, she could snap a neck.
Speaker 3:Oh, wow, so I could have been the wine bottle. I mean, I like really, like I don't like that, like I really want to like do my thing. So I was like trying with all my might I mean it was, I said okay. I was really trying, I wouldn't say anything. And then I said, okay, can someone do this? Lisa grabbed it.
Speaker 2:I swear, no, I mean she literally was snapping the neck and we were both like damn.
Speaker 3:No, it was scary, like you today, how beautiful you are and how amazing, you are, don't basically carry me in a dark alley, that's all I can do. I can just open stuff. Well, I should have told that arm wrestling you, because that was for sure that was like we were both like well, that's shit, I mean it was not even like it was like Arm wrestling is the amount of testosterone.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying Basically.
Speaker 5:if arm wrestling were an Olympic sport, you would like lose the Kelly for the win. Oh, by the way, speaking of testosterone. Uh-oh, uh-oh.
Speaker 3:I bought the Tweezerman because you said it.
Speaker 5:What's the?
Speaker 3:Tweezerman what's the Tweezerman guy?
Speaker 4:The Tweezerman, tweezerman. Yeah, have you never had a Tweezerman? I've never had a Tweezerman. Oh, they're so amazing.
Speaker 2:You just send the box to be sharpened.
Speaker 5:And then if they go like dull or don't work anymore, you just send them back and they like sharpen them for you.
Speaker 3:I remember because I have to keep one in my car and my tweezers stink. But she mentioned it. You were here, tweezerman.
Speaker 4:You don't forget, it might have been the wine, or Tweezers are like my thing If I go, if I'm stuck anywhere, I will have a tweezer. Okay, so, speaking of hair and body, hair and stuff.
Speaker 3:Do you guys shave like regularly? Yes, yes, okay, so I got lazy, but I I've like decided like cause when I wear scrubs every day, I know I always have my legs covered. But I just sorry, but I just decided like the other day.
Speaker 4:I'm going to shave my legs every day and I, like I'm a man for three days if I don't Shit. No, I swear to God, I'm the hairiest person in life I've told you this before.
Speaker 2:I know you have, but I still don't believe it. No, I am, because you're blonde.
Speaker 4:No, I'm not, I'm not blonde. No, you're blonde, no. I'm like Ish darkest hair.
Speaker 3:Wait, I don't think that I guess you leave it like a brows. You can wear brows. No, but brows aren't as dark as you were.
Speaker 4:No but they're light now. Yeah, no, no, I'm as dark as I'd be, as dark as the darkest part of your hair.
Speaker 5:We should all do laser hair removal. I did. I'm going to stare at your hair. Laser hair removal.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah, I'll show you later. These are actually really funny. Okay, here's one. What's the funniest thing?
Speaker 4:you've ever done. Drunk, I fell asleep. I'm not funny when.
Speaker 2:I'm drunk, ride a bull at a rodeo and continuously dance on a bar Like a real bull Yep.
Speaker 3:No, it was walked out with a cowboy.
Speaker 2:I've danced with Elvis on a bar before.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's cute, not really Elvis, but yeah, I'm not a funny drunk, I would have to say that.
Speaker 4:I mean I've done really stupid stuff.
Speaker 3:I mean, I could ride him a capitol, though, like no other.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, this was a real bowl. And then they asked me to like say the closing speech. I probably sounded like an absolute idiot.
Speaker 4:Oh, oh my god, I'd love to be a funny drunk so oh my god, I definitely get more fun when I drink.
Speaker 2:we were at a dude ranch in arizona and we had been drinking all day and no actually wine. And then, like some of the cowboys had started like with the whiskey and you know I'm sucker for a good whiskey and then I just literally thought it would be so amazing. And then I just walked up to this cowboy and I was like can I get on? Anyway, wow, that's impressive.
Speaker 4:But I just do super. I wish I was funny.
Speaker 3:You're funny all the time You're funny without drinking.
Speaker 4:Well, exactly, but I well, I'd be asleep. That's right, I can't drink before seven o'clock.
Speaker 2:See if I cause we all know that I go to bed at like seven. Ah, yeah, so anytime, guys, anytime. There's like a text message with our group.
Speaker 5:I said that to you last night, ashley's asleep.
Speaker 2:It was ten past eight, but if I'm drinking it can be two, three o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1:Oh, my gosh Like just game on.
Speaker 3:Oh wow, dancing singing just, I definitely crash faster now. Okay, here's another one. Okay, have you ever blamed a fart on someone else? Absolutely.
Speaker 5:Absolutely Child.
Speaker 3:I thought that was the best thing about babies.
Speaker 2:But first of, all we don't toot, but if we did, we would absolutely absolutely that was the best when you had a baby.
Speaker 3:oh, your diaper's poopy. Oh, my goodness, look at you, you little stinky thing. So this is. I have an embarrassing moment. So I was a tour guide at a cave. We talked about that before. I was a tour guide at a cave. So cave air is like stagnant, right Stagnant.
Speaker 2:I don't like where this is going. It's so bad.
Speaker 3:It's bad. So like usually two or three, like 35, 40 people, right, we go through. And I had bad gas one day and so I was given like a little spiel about this one place where you see the bat poop stains on the ceiling, and I had gas and I was like I smell bat shit in here. I was like, oh my God, it was so horrible. But it was not. That was the bads. But I let them blame it on the bads.
Speaker 4:No, that was amazing.
Speaker 3:I think the bads are fine. Those bads are awful. That's being dedicated to the role.
Speaker 2:You have manifested method acting. You manifested the bad poop.
Speaker 3:You should be an actress Speaking of poop. Here's another one. Oh my gosh, these are really good. I could go online, so we'll cut them out here. Would you rather pee every time you laugh or shart every time you sneeze? Well, we already pee.
Speaker 4:every time we laugh, that's already a given.
Speaker 5:I pee when I sneeze as well, so awful getting older.
Speaker 2:It's terrible.
Speaker 3:What's the funniest nickname you've ever had?
Speaker 2:I don't think I've ever really had. I don't think anyone's called me a nickname. I haven't had a nickname that I'm aware of.
Speaker 4:Yeah me, neither, I don't even have. We're not big on nicknames, really See, I had one.
Speaker 5:Did you? Yeah, I was Buggles, because they said that my eyes were bugging out of my head Because I had big eyes and they were like you have pretty eyes, I eyes.
Speaker 3:I was like your eyes don't bugle out?
Speaker 2:No, they don't. Well, that was someone that was jealous of you when I was younger.
Speaker 5:They were like oh my God, your eyes are so big, they're bugging out of your head. Honey, that was just someone that was jealous of you.
Speaker 3:I used to be tish-a-dish and actually I was told Lisa Hurst then calls me TK Money now.
Speaker 2:TK Money, tk Money. I feel like that needs to be a song.
Speaker 3:He probably has one. Here's the last one. What's the cringiest thing you've ever shared on social media?
Speaker 2:I don't share. I don't think I've shared anything on.
Speaker 4:I don't think I share, like, oh, I'm not really a soppy, sappy person, so I probably shared something cringy about Scott that I felt I had to do to be a good wife, and not that I wouldn't have meant it. I'm just not that person. I'm not a romantic person. Right which you told me last night that I'm not romantic at all, that I'm the least romantic.
Speaker 2:Who said that? Wait, Scott said that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, he told me I'm not romantic.
Speaker 2:We have to come up with something really romantic for you, I know.
Speaker 3:I'm not romantic.
Speaker 1:But that's not a bad.
Speaker 2:And it makes him happy and we're like, we're fine with that. Like he realizes that, like I'm not going to yeah, I'm just not going to romance.
Speaker 5:I don't want romance, I think that on social media is like too much.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't like to Well.
Speaker 5:I guess. I was like I don't really think that I've shared that much.
Speaker 3:I'm not even like an anniversary or like like years back. I'm like, oh my God, like I can't believe one of my friends and say what the hell, trisha, that doesn't even look like you Like those are. That's definitely my worst.
Speaker 4:One is like but sure, that's everybody. I keep bumping into people that I'm friends with and I spent the whole time looking at their face gun. It's no.
Speaker 5:My kids will like crack up because I don't notice any of that stuff. But they'll look at them and be like her eyelashes, like go up to the like. Welcome sign. Like if you're like oh yeah, no, I never noticed that. Or like her, you know, whatever, like. It's just weird that they say like oh, her eyelashes are like into her hairline.
Speaker 1:And I'm like wait what.
Speaker 3:I know someone who does like you can touch it. She's not very good at it Because her husband always has on makeup too Like when she does it, she doesn't realize she's not. So you see, he has on lipstick and blush.
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh you gotta figure out the filters. That would be funny.
Speaker 4:That's not good though.
Speaker 2:That's why filters get me in trouble, because I wouldn't even know how to stop that. I don't even know how to do a filter.
Speaker 5:Honestly on Instagram, I'm like I have no idea. I don't know how to use Instagram.
Speaker 4:I started using Instagram. I don't know how to use it. Yeah, I don't know how to use it Can you follow me, Lisa.
Speaker 3:Thank you for following me. You're welcome. Are you on Instagram? Yeah, but I don't know what I'm doing.
Speaker 2:You know, but I'm not on.
Speaker 4:Instagram Like I am.
Speaker 2:I have a presence. I'll give my kids the phone.
Speaker 4:I'd be lost without Facebook, though I really would. It keeps me connected with so many people at home. Well, and that's true. I love that, I really do. I get to see people. I mean, I think that there are benefits, but, oh, I think the more that I feel like I've got very good at kind of going okay, regardless of it's not because of them, it's because of how I feel when I see them. I had to do. You know what? If I'll tell you something I found out about myself, but I only found out from pure bar, do you know what I can't cope with? You're going to have a field day with this.
Speaker 2:Okay, here we go. What is that?
Speaker 4:I can't cope with that chart in the. I can't cope with that chart.
Speaker 3:What's the challenge?
Speaker 4:So we're doing a challenge yeah, a challenge that you do 60 classes in 30 days. No, it's 30 classes in 60 days, oh, in 60 days. And there's a chart at the back and someone said to me you need to put your name up on the chart. And I literally went into panic mode going, oh, I can't do that. But I didn't know I couldn't do that Just because you ripped the heads off of wine bottles.
Speaker 4:Like you're just no, I just I feel I was like it's commitment, no, it's competition, oh, competition, that I just I was like.
Speaker 2:I get you take 30 classes in 60 days. I probably do.
Speaker 4:I don't look at my count. Yeah, I don't know how many classes I've done, but I know if I had to be accountable for that, that would drive me nuts.
Speaker 3:See, I'm really competitive. That's why, when I try, to open the wine bottle and then, lisa, just Sorry, I ruined that for you, I do feel that's more of an American thing, though.
Speaker 5:The competitiveness. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 4:I do feel it's a very, and again it comes down to like even your football teams.
Speaker 3:And yeah, yes, yeah, but then I'm so not competitive. You're kind of an American now, though, right.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but I don't have a team. I don't care, I just want everyone to be happy. See, just be happy Just while I play. Yeah.
Speaker 2:Just be happy.
Speaker 3:Just be happy. Well, let's cheers to that.
Speaker 2:Cheers, that sounded pretty.
Speaker 4:It did. It did even with the can.
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