MIDDLE AGEish
Authentically and unapologetically keeping it real, discussing all things Middle Age (ish), when metabolism slows and confidence grows. Middle Age(ish): A time of transition from dreaming of who we will grow up to be and looking at the legacy we will leave behind. Listen to this podcast and join the hosts of Middle Age(ish) as they sit around with a glass of wine to discuss all things related to middle age with some amazing guests!
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Sofa Talk: Unexpected Encounters, Fame's Facade, and Hilarious Hypotheticals
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Ever bumped into someone you know in the most unexpected places, like a patient at Disney or a buddy on a TV show? Join us as we kick off with our quirky tales of recognizing familiar faces out of the usual context—it's as funny as it is strange! We also stumble upon a lively conversation about Mormon culture and the unexpected intersections between personal and professional worlds. From elevator-awkward to laugh-out-loud moments, our chat promises a delightful mix of humor and reflection you won't want to miss.
Shifting gears, we navigate the glitzy yet precarious terrain of fame, power, and wealth. The entertainment industry’s darker side comes to light as we ponder the moral pitfalls when stars are surrounded by yes-people. We touch on the uncanny world of AI technology mimicking celebrity voices—imagine Justin Bieber in your living room! Anticipate some eyebrow-raising revelations about the realities behind celebrity glamour and the hidden truths that fame can often mask.
For a lighter twist, we indulge in hilarious "Would You Rather" scenarios, exploring bizarre hypotheticals that reveal our quirkiest sides. Whether it’s dreams that take a creepy turn into sleep paralysis, tales of embarrassing nights, or the art of blame-shifting those unexpected farts, we cover it all with laughter and candid anecdotes. And yes, we’ve all had those cringeworthy social media moments. Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we tackle life's awkward, strange, and downright amusing middle-age-ish adventures.
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Welcome to the Middle Age-ish Podcast. Authentically and unapologetically, keeping it real, discussing all things Middle Age-ish, a time when metabolism slows and confidence grows. Join fashion and fitness entrepreneur Ashley Badowski, former Celtic woman and founder of the Lisa Kelly Voice Academy, lisa Kelly licensed psychologist and mental health expert, dr Pam Wright and highly sought after cosmetic injector and board certified nurse practitioner, trisha Kennedy-Roman. Join your hosts on the journey of middle-age-ish.
Speaker 3Hello and welcome back to another episode of Middle-Age-ish. I'm Trisha Kennedy-Roman and I'm joined here today with my co-host, ashley Badowski, lisa Kelly and Dr Pam Wright, so thank you for joining us for our sofa talk, yay.
Speaker 2These are my favorite. I love these, yes, because they're so random.
Speaker 4One never knows what we're going to talk about.
Speaker 3Yes, never know, nope really fast.
Speaker 2You did, because we're talking about You're so professional Seriously, like I know, like the times that I've had.
Speaker 5Thank you very much, You're welcome. She could say that in her sleep probably. I know Seriously Like.
Speaker 2I put like the times that I've had her introduce somebody. I'm like I have it on my phone.
Speaker 3I'm like I looked at Pam and I'm like God knows, I don't have a problem talking Like that's not my problem.
Speaker 2But yeah, like I really did, I was like uh, okay, so anyway yeah.
Speaker 4I'm not good with. I'm not good with names outside of like where we're supposed to be. So I can remember everybody when I'm in the studio, but when I go out and I see them outside, I'm like oh, no, no.
Speaker 5the worst is when you like recognize someone but you don't know where and you're like how do I know that person?
Speaker 2How do I?
Speaker 5know that person.
Speaker 2How do I know that person? Just panic freeze attack.
Speaker 4Or do you ever? Well, I think it's even crazier If you go somewhere like Disney or where was this? Oh, when I was in New York, I saw the same people like two or three times in the day in different places.
Speaker 2That's weird, I think that's just weird, so weird yeah.
Speaker 4I saw people from Peachtree City in New York in three different places, like all over the city.
Speaker 2I just don't even know how that's possible.
Speaker 4Yeah, that is really weird, crazy, crazy. Yeah, there were stalkers or random people that you just see in Disney and then you see them all the time. That happens to me.
Speaker 3I've seen random patients in other states when I'm like like I was in the bathroom and I think it was Boston and somebody walked out and said you do my Botox.
Speaker 2I was like I do You're like well, girl, you look fabulous, you look good.
Speaker 5Yeah, I'm glad that was me Of course I do.
Speaker 4Speaking of, I saw our one are one of our guests on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Tracy. What.
Speaker 5What.
Speaker 4Yes, what Tracy Is it Tracy?
Speaker 2Anderson.
Speaker 4Yes, I am shocked.
Speaker 3Wait, what All right, well, okay, I've been watching that, so that must have been a recent one, because I have.
Speaker 4It's about the third episode, in third or fourth episode in there's only eight, right, yeah, there they go in to get their Botox and their fillers. It was her place, it's her place. It's Rice. Oh my gosh, I know her, I know her.
Speaker 3I totally missed that part Wow.
Speaker 2I've seen the commercial so I'm going to have to start.
Speaker 5People are addicted to that. My clients say that they watch it all the time, because that's the one with all the young girls. It started like as a TikTok something. Yeah, there were.
Speaker 4TikToks and sensation. And then there was a big. There was a big drama, but I'm not disclosing anything that you don't learn in like the first 30 seconds of it. There was a big TikTok drama because one of the lead girls in us said that all the wives were swinging, husbands were swinging.
Speaker 3So it was like Wait so they're not all married, but they were like wasn't it in general swinging or something? Okay, hold on. No, they're married and swinging.
Speaker 5They're married and swinging, but I thought it was like like not full swinging.
Speaker 4So this is not sister wives where they're all, like, married to the same guy. They're all married to the same. No, they're just.
Speaker 2Mormon wives. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like my housewives of Salt Lake City, which, yes, which I okay.
Speaker 4So they're all married to different guys and apparently one of them was swinging, and then so, really, the whole series starts with the fallout from one of the girls, claiming that they all were swingers. I'm just so on the fence about the whole thing. I hate mocking any religion and I just I don't understand. I don't understand Because it's not. It's like a salacious look into LDS Right as opposed to I don't know, I really don't know how I feel about it Because it's such a strict.
Speaker 3It's very strict.
Speaker 2It's such a protected religion too, exactly, so I don't know how you swing.
Speaker 3Well, religion too. So I don't know how you swing. I mean, which is? I'm sure that's not condoned.
Speaker 2No, which is kind of like an oxymoron, because there are those that have, like, the offshoots of LDS, that still believe that you can have multiple wives.
Speaker 5But yeah, swinging, yeah it's it's just, but can I say this? This is, this is interesting. So on, the housewives of utah select city yeah, so the girl that's one of the main like characters. She drinks diet coke 24 7 and she owns a tequila distillery and that's how they make their money and they're like anti-caffeine yes, well, so they can can have soda.
Speaker 3They can have soda. They can have soda. Not coffee or tea, okay, but soda they can have. So what's?
Speaker 5the difference. If it's caffeine, I don't know Okay. But anyway, but she owns like this tequila and it's like this whole thing in the show that you produce alcohol and that's how you make your money, but that's not allowed.
Speaker 4Well, there's a lot of these girls are drinking as well. So there's like half of them drink, half of them don't. Half of them have tattoos, half of them don't. So there's a lot of the break away from, so there's like a half.
Speaker 2That is like practicing women.
Speaker 4Well, they're all practicing, apparently, but there's like I don't know. I'm just I'm going to have to watch it.
Speaker 3It's really trashy. It's really trashy. It is kind of I like watching the trashy stuff.
Speaker 2We love reality TV. It just wasn't very well produced.
Speaker 4It's not like the wives.
Speaker 5It's like reality though right, supposedly.
Speaker 4It's kind of like reality and it's more like, maybe, the Bachelorette than it is like the manufactured reality, which even that's saying something.
Speaker 1They're very pretty.
Speaker 3I mean, they're very beautiful.
Speaker 1Yeah, the commercials I've seen because I guess, now that I'm watching Salt Lake City.
Speaker 2I now see commercials for that all the time.
Speaker 4They're stunning girls, they're nice girls. It's not like they're not nice girls, they're stunning girls, they're nice girls. It's not like they're not nice girls. And it's just kind of playing up on this whole mean girl kind of thing. And I'm a better Mormon than you, which I found strange because apparently they don't like to be referred to as Mormons either. It's supposed to be.
Speaker 1LDS Really.
Speaker 4Yes, and then they use that term themselves.
Speaker 3So apparently, yeah, it's. Yeah. Wonder like you, like we knew in like high school like sometimes the preacher's kids were like the wildest ones like they have so many rules that that's why they like, try to like break out, yeah, but I suppose they don't really know any different.
Speaker 4So like if you're growing up in salt lake city, I assume, like the majority are lds, so you don't know any different. But then I think TikTok and social media and everything has brought an outside world in. We didn't have that issue in Ireland because the priests didn't have children, so Well.
Speaker 2We hope not.
Speaker 4Well, there's many, many, but yeah, they weren't, you weren't known, it wasn't known that they were. It's just yeah, I really felt on the fence.
Speaker 5So I wonder how this, how did this become even a show like, do you even know?
Speaker 4like, it came from their tiktok.
Speaker 2So their tiktok was so popular that they were approached by whatever company decided to like bravo or something, or I mean, I don't think it's on hulu, it's on hulu.
Speaker 4I don't think it's. Bravo, yeah, yeah, it's. Yeah, it must. Maybe it's a hulu original. Yeah, um, yeah, just weird. Probably wouldn't think it's it's on Hulu. It's on Hulu, I don't think it's Bravo.
Speaker 1Yeah, it must. Maybe it's a Hulu original.
Speaker 4Yeah, yeah, just weird. Probably wouldn't watch it again. Don't think I'd watch A second season. You wouldn't, no, I don't know. I kind of binged it. I mean I might have to just Take a look.
Speaker 2I've heard people.
Speaker 3That's worth taking a look. Okay, so what is that?
Speaker 2You always know what to watch. I know, I know.
Speaker 5Lisa should be our informant. What is this?
Speaker 4No, it's not on the same theme at all. So it's actually it's a rom-com, which I thought was a movie, and I don't do movies because I don't have the brain capacity to sit still that long. However, I did binge like five episodes of it.
Speaker 2So you actually did watch a movie.
Speaker 1But it's about a podcaster.
Speaker 4It's about a sex podcaster, kristen Bell's a sex podcaster, and she goes to a party that looks adorable and she meets Adam Brody, who's a rabbi, and it's all about their relationship, which is just adorable.
Speaker 5Is this the one where she thinks it's the rabbi, but it's not?
Speaker 1It's really like the guy that's the jerk. Yes, Okay.
Speaker 5I saw the first episode. It was really good, so weird. I love her. She's funny, she is fabulous.
Speaker 4She's so fabulous, but you've seen the whole thing.
Speaker 3I've seen the whole thing. Is it good? Yeah, it's so good.
Speaker 5It's so worth the watch. It's just easy because I'd watched the Menendez brothers before that, so I was like still.
Speaker 4I don't know what I believe. I actually don't know what I believe. I came away thinking that they may have made it all up.
Speaker 3That. I don't, I don't know, if they were abused.
Speaker 5I don't know, though, I mean, they just seem so I mean, but there was some letter that apparently there was a letter that one of them wrote to the other one that they found, or someone to a cousin. Yeah, apparently eight months beforehand.
Speaker 4But it was just they had tried to get all their friends to say thus the father had abused them and all the friends as well.
Speaker 5Like it was just there was just somebody that was because he was a music producer or something, I think. But there was like someone who came out and said that he did sexually abuse or assault him or something. I don't know, I don't know, and in the news Diddy stuff.
Speaker 3Oh my gosh, I don't want to even go there.
Speaker 2It's the craziest thing ever. It's horrible.
Speaker 4I think that one is totally horrible. Everybody knew, though, apparently.
Speaker 2Everybody knows. That's what's so shocking. Shocking is that the veil has come down and the way that you see all of that, like you start to question everything, like you heard the rumors with Whitney Houston, you heard it with Prince, you heard it with Michael Jackson, but it was just these fabrications. No, this was just a tragic situation.
Speaker 3Justin Timberlake's song that they were playing the lyrics, and when you hear it now, it's so sad.
Speaker 2Oh no, that's Justin Bieber. Sorry, justin Bieber. Yes, I actually feel so horrible for that man.
Speaker 4Oh my gosh. Well for all of them Wait for what man Like.
Speaker 3Justin Bieber Justin Bieber Because of the whole situation.
Speaker 5them Wait for what man Like. Justin Bieber Justin Bieber Because of the whole situation.
Speaker 2Yeah, because I mean per the reports allegedly he was a little kid when he first started, usher had taken parental, was given parental control and then gave it to Diddy for 48 hours that first weekend and it was a lot ditty for 48 hours that first weekend.
Speaker 5But I think people now that they're I mean not to be that person, but that there's cameras everywhere I think that women feel more safe to come out and say things because they're, I mean when you see video evidence like what you see, how do you dispute? Like someone beating someone in an elevator or someone beating someone.
Speaker 2I think that's how he got so. But but in the flip side of that, which is going to be his downfall but that's per allegedly that's how he got all of the control is he has video tapes, oh yeah.
Speaker 5But when you see someone like beating someone like that, how do you even it?
Speaker 2just I can't my mind can't go that way.
Speaker 4I think there's a sense when you have that much money and you have that much ego there's a huge sense of power that you feel and I really feel with a lot of superstars.
Speaker 4They surround themselves with yes, people, because they're paying people so much that they won't say no to them. So, no matter what you do, you want to keep. I worked with a man years ago who always said to me never pay people so much that they can't afford to leave Right, because then they're not there for the reasons they want to be there. They're there because you're paying them so much, and I think that's what happens to people in, especially in the music industry, especially in the music industry.
Speaker 2And I think that's when evil comes into it, because evil is a huge player in all of this. Like to do the things that has been alleged with multiple different levels of it. I mean, it's you get to a point where the corruption Well, you think about Matthew Perry and now who's like responsible?
Speaker 5like, because his assistant was the one giving him the injections and he kept asking for the injections and I think they knew that this was not correct, but yet he's asking for it and he they work for him. I mean, it just becomes gonna get forward, yeah, yeah doctor thing, but he did guilty as well. One of the doctors yeah, 100, but it's like I would rather hire someone who's like hey, like, like, enough, like if I would, if you're out drinking and you're making a fool of yourself or whatever you want that friend who's like, hey, come on, yeah drink water.
Speaker 5Let's cut it off, let's go, let's leave and not just like hey, we're gonna do what they're saying, because they're they're, they're way above me and I'm just gonna keep doing what they tell me to do. Yeah, and that right, that's.
Speaker 4I never trust anyone who agrees with me all the time. Yeah.
Speaker 3No, you know it's crazy. So I was just trying to find this lyrics till I tell you guys about, like, what I heard and it was lost myself at a diddy party, didn't know how it was go, how it go.
Speaker 3I was in it for a new Ferrari but it cost me way more than my soul lyrics, and I've heard it in justin bieber's voice, but in snopes it said that there's common, they've reached out to justin bieber's camp and that some people are saying that it might be ai generated and that's freaky how ai like you can hear, because I've heard it and sound like his voice, but I've heard taylor swift's song like singing about travis kelsey breakup, who's definitely wasn't her, and how ai can, I think I mean, and I wouldn, I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if it was AI, but I do think that it's there's truth to whatever happened.
Speaker 2I mean cause you can just look at, yeah, I mean so again, that is one instance where it could be AI, but I do think that it that it's actually based in truth, and I think that probably more stuff is going to come out. Well, we'll just it'll depend on just how far up.
Speaker 4They've already said that there is a megastar who is about to be exposed.
Speaker 5Wow, I kind of hope. So Like related to this.
Speaker 2Yeah, no, they say it goes all over the place.
Speaker 5That's so sad.
Speaker 3It's crazy, just how, when you get to that level. How warped things can get. Yes, I'm glad I've not ever been at that level.
Speaker 4Yeah, again, it's money and power. It's just money and power, it's like, and I think it's at every level.
Speaker 2Don't you sometimes wonder like, are we, like, is this reality? Like, are we actually seeing what is reality? Because it's crazy.
Speaker 4It is crazy, but it doesn't surprise me. I mean, when you think, when you think, like, when I think back of the amount of rooms that I was in with men who, like, were of a different level to what I was at Right, you were always exposed and I think we were just, I know, certainly I was that like you're a people pleaser and you're doing what you're told and you're used to doing what you're told, but like you're totally taken advantage of and I think, when that goes, even when you're naive, and then when it goes a little bit higher.
Speaker 4So, like I remember thinking about Matt Lauer, no-transcript Left the Today Show. Was it ABC?
Speaker 2NBC Today Show, wasn't it? Yeah, Today Show.
Speaker 4That's what the whole morning show is based on the whole show.
Speaker 3I have no idea.
Speaker 4So it's in every industry.
Speaker 2I think power corrupts in 90% of the cases.
Speaker 3Absolutely Money.
Speaker 2Well look, at people who win the lottery like how many of their lives? Oh, I know, and they're bankrupt in like two to five years and they could win like hundreds of millions of dollars and they're bankrupt in five years.
Speaker 4It's the root of all evil, I tell you, but I guarantee you.
Speaker 5We all have stories about being taken advantage of and power differential.
Speaker 3I know I do Multiple. No, I think I've been pretty sheltered. I guess oh gosh, now I can write about. Ashley and I are from Missouri.
Speaker 2I know, and I got married. I mean I did See, that's the thing. Like I got married young and I mean you can look back and be like, oh OK, so maybe that boss was being a little extra flirty, but then you know what I'm saying Like my life navigated differently and I had Steven and it changed the complete path of my life. So yeah, I don't I mean but, but I don't doubt it at all, like at all. It's just, I think, because again, my, my journey went in a completely different way. Yeah, so I wasn't necessarily exposed to that.
Speaker 5Yeah yeah, I'm just glad that people are speaking out so much more than necessarily exposed to that. Yeah yeah, I'm just glad that people are speaking out so much more than they used to, cause I feel like back in the day you couldn't really speak out.
Speaker 5I remember going to another professor and they were just like you know what, you really don't need to say anything because they're tenured and so nothing will happen. I remember having that conversation and just being like oh okay, nothing to say. What are you going to say? Nothing's going to happen, so keep your mouth shut. I just think that was the message back in the day.
Speaker 3Oh God yeah.
Speaker 5Yeah 100%.
Speaker 4Yeah, it's mad.
Speaker 1It's mad, but it'll be interesting to see Video is good to have.
Speaker 5Video is absolutely. You can't dispute that right. Text messages.
Speaker 4Trail of text messages, Like it's going to be interesting Technology. It's going to be huge.
Speaker 2So do you think, because this is kind of like I waver Do you think it's ever going to? Because they say it's like Jeffrey Epstein, times 20. Do you think it's ever going to see the light of day? Because, oh, yes, I think so.
Speaker 3I think he'll talk.
Speaker 2I think that's what I that my concern is. Is that okay? So supposedly he's not even a like a top tier. He just so the ones that are top tier. But think about what would you do to like stop it from happening.
Speaker 3Wait, so he isn't the top tier, no.
Speaker 5But the thing is that they talk like if I turn in Lisa, then she'll get lesser. If we're reporting you, I mean don't get me wrong. I hope he sings like a canary Me too, because I think the whole thing. Everybody wants him later and I think he's evil. And I think that he deserves whatever's coming down on him Like I think there's usually somebody above.
Speaker 2Oh no, From what they say, allegedly like he's not even close to top tier. He just, he just knew to cover himself with the videos. And then that was what then kept everybody in line, and then the videos, and then that was what then kept everybody in line. And then the videos continue to come. Because, right, that's what it's just, it's scary.
Speaker 5It's scary to think that people prey on people like that, though, isn't it yeah?
Speaker 3even a psychologist.
Speaker 2It's very it's very, it's very Evil walks amongst us. I mean it does Like it's like.
Speaker 4But so much evil. And yes, that's the I think that's the scary part. It's like there's just so much of us, so much of it everywhere and everywhere. School.
Speaker 3I mean, yeah, school is everywhere. Let's pivot to something more fun.
Speaker 2Okay, a few times. All right, so we're going to pivot.
Speaker 3Yes, All right, let me have a little drink to that first.
Speaker 2All right. Well, let's all take a drink, two, yes.
Speaker 4Here we go.
Humorous Would You Rather Scenarios
Speaker 3All right, we haven't done, would you rather for a while? Oh God, here we go. I just Googled as we were sitting here. Okay, here's, rather only be able to whisper, or only be able to shout Whisper, whisper, whisper. Okay, that's easy. All right, here's one. This is an unusual one, Although.
Speaker 4Do you ever have that dream, though, that you're like you're trying to warn somebody of something and you can't shout no?
Speaker 2that's not Okay. I actually have not had that.
Speaker 4Dream it when you're trying to get someone's attention and you can't show.
Speaker 3I just had my most dramatic is when I, like, went to school with no clothes on. Do you guys ever have that dream? No, okay.
Speaker 2I've had a dream where I went to school and didn't have shoes, and then I couldn't find my locker and I forgot my locker.
Speaker 3I've had like straight up, like going to school naked.
Speaker 2Oh my gosh, I thought that was normal. We should talk about this later.
Speaker 3All right, all right, back to our pivot. Here's one. Would you rather always have an eyelash in your eye or always have a hair in your butt? Crack.
Speaker 4Ew, I have a hair in my butt. Crack, definitely, definitely Hair in my eye.
Speaker 5Hair in my eye, yeah.
Speaker 2I don't but.
Speaker 5You're not going to.
Speaker 2How would you even feel hair in your booty?
Speaker 3crack.
Speaker 4I feel my hair everywhere. My hair falls out, so much Me too.
Speaker 1I feel it everywhere.
Speaker 4Oh, my God Shut up oh yeah, when I'm in the shower, there's like hair everywhere. Yeah, I spent half an hour picking hair.
Speaker 3All right. What the answer for Lisa? But I don't know if it was this. Would you rather only be able to speak in riddles or have to sing every sentence?
Speaker 2Oh, I want to sing every sentence even though I'm horrible, I do too.
Speaker 3Even though I'm not good, I actually really view myself as correct.
Speaker 2Or Lisa.
Speaker 4You can mime and I'll sing for you.
Speaker 2I feel like I'm you. Let me just belch out. Oh my gosh, I want a YouTube video of me singing with your voice and I'll be viral.
Speaker 3That's perfect. Oh, by the way, you want to hear something really sweet? By the way, my mom has trouble sleeping sometimes, right, so I went up. I heard, I heard people talk upstairs. It was really late at night and I went upstairs. I hear Lisa singing on Alexa. My mom was listening to Lisa Kelly's songs.
Speaker 2You have a gorgeous voice. She was listening to you.
Speaker 3It's amazing, so I got to walk in and hear Lisa at like 2 am singing.
Speaker 4That's so sweet she was like listen to.
Speaker 3Lisa Okay.
Speaker 5What's next?
Speaker 3These are really, would you rather. We're all agreeing.
Speaker 4I think someone was drinking. Where are we? What's next? These are really. Would you rather we're all agreeing, I think someone was drinking.
Speaker 3Where are we? Okay, I think this is pretty. Would you rather accidentally swallow a spider or a moth?
Speaker 4Ew Moth. Oh my God, although I think we have all swallowed spiders, because apparently they crawl into your mouth at night. I know that's terrifying. I've never heard that?
Speaker 5Oh, actually I've heard that that's horrible.
Speaker 3Never happened. Okay, would you rather have a toe the size of a foot, or a finger the size of a hand Toe the size of a foot?
Speaker 2Then you could just size up your shoe.
Speaker 5No, you'd really mess up your whole shoe game. Ashley, yeah, I'm like you.
Speaker 2We could hide it Can you just have surgery and take it off?
Speaker 4Exactly. I'm like you, we can hide it. Can you just have surgery and take it off Exactly? Yeah, you can, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3Speaking of having things taken off, what about extras? Would you rather have an extra arm or an extra leg?
Speaker 4Extra arm.
Speaker 2I get so much done. I've had three arms. I have to agree with Lisa on that one, because that would that would throw off my shoe game If.
Speaker 5I was a guy. I'd say an extra leg. I got run faster, that's what she?
Speaker 3said Is that an extra leg you have there? Okay?
Speaker 2Are you just happy to see me? Yes, exactly.
Speaker 3Okay, I'll give you one more. All right, would you rather have the head a head?
Speaker 2It's going to be close. Delete, delete, delete. Sleep, okay a head. Oh, it's gonna be close, delete, delete, delete sleep okay, I can't even say it my husband would be like head, please thank you.
Speaker 3Oh my god, I can't even read read that one.
Speaker 2Trisha is she's blushing. She is alright. Would you rather have the head the size of a watermelon or a golf ball? Read that one. Trisha is she's blushing.
Speaker 5She is All right. Would you rather have the head the size of a watermelon or a golf ball? So your head is the size of a watermelon, not the head.
Speaker 4The head, not the head.
Speaker 5My head is the size of a watermelon.
Speaker 1I have a huge head you have a big head.
Speaker 3I do, I have a big head. I have a huge head. I can't you each had to come wear hats. I'd rather have a hat.
Speaker 5You would put a golf ball, because you would look like yeah, better than a big bobble hat. That would just yeah, watermelon yeah.
Speaker 3Watermelon. Okay, so we've agreed on this. This is the first time we've agreed on everyone. That is actually the first time we've.
Speaker 4And we've learned things.
Speaker 3Yes, you learned about splinters dreams.
Speaker 5No, do what no?
Speaker 3Trisha worst dream is going to school naked. I'm going to have to do a little therapy session after this. Yes, going to school naked, I tell you, mine are always where.
Speaker 2I go to school and I can't find my locker and I can't remember my locker code and I have to go to the front office and get it and she wore the wrong shoes, I know, and I didn't look fabulous. I didn't have my tan on, I didn't have my great shoes, and then I had to walk down the hallway to the front office.
Speaker 4My worst recurring dream, which happens a lot.
Speaker 2We should talk about it. This is a good one.
Speaker 4I can't get to the stage, like I'm supposed to be on the stage. I'm on next, yeah, and I can't, like I can't get there, I can't get around to the stage. So there's that one, and then there's the one that I'm on stage and I don't know what I'm supposed to sing. Nobody's given me the music, so I don't know what I'm supposed to be singing. They're my, they're my two. It used to be school before I, like, did this for a living. It was like I'd go into an exam and I didn's my recurring wake up in a sweat. My nightmare would be that.
Speaker 1I was on stage.
Speaker 2Not that I could go on stage and the light booms, that's crazy, it's naked yeah you're naked.
Speaker 4But being on stage is the craziest thing because you can't see anybody. So it's not like it really isn't as terrifying as you think it's going to be, because when for the most part like 90% of the time when you walk on stage you can't see people Because the lights are so bright, so you're just standing there.
Speaker 2It's the craziest thing Well.
Speaker 4I would be standing there with no talent. You could talk, you could like, stretch your stuff up and down the runway, you could do yeah, do some comedy, yodel, yodel. So there was this All right.
Speaker 2So what's your Dr Pam? What is your reoccurring dream?
Speaker 5I don't have reoccurring dreams, but I used to have sleep paralysis. Do you know what that is? It's terrifying, no. So sleep paralysis is where you, so you're always in your, your bed, but there's some dark figure or something oh, I've had that and you can't talk. It's kind of like what you were saying you can't talk, you can't move, you can't yell, but you're always like you're never anywhere else.
Speaker 5So it's not like a dream where you're like but you see the shadow figure but you see something dark coming at you and it's standing there and you can't say anything. Breathe alert, do anything. Like you're paralyzed, and that is like you're in between that dream state and the awake.
Speaker 2So where does that come from? Because that's happened to me twice in my life.
Speaker 5It's just sleep paralysis. It's where your brain waves get caught between going to sleep and still being awake and you're in this kind of transition but you are remembering everything. It of like transition. But you are remembering everything like it's scary, but you can't move I know.
Speaker 2So, like, where does the shadow figure play into, like your brain waves?
Speaker 5yeah, it's just always that there's something that you need to like, alert or do something, and you're just very aware that you can't move, that you're paralyzed, yeah, so that's so valid. Like I said, that's happened to me twice in my life and, yeah, very different than sleep terror or sleep where sleep terror is, where you have like horrible dreams and you wake up screaming and you feel like they're real and that kind of thing.
Speaker 1Yeah, it's very different.
Speaker 5But sleep paralysis is terrifying because you're always right there in your bed.
Speaker 2Well, the shadow figure is so evil Like it just permanates evil. At least it did in my the two times it happened to me. It just permanates evil. At least it did in my the two times it happened with to me.
Speaker 5Yeah, dark, like I had like hooded, like somebody in, like a hooded thing. I went to my this sounds crazy, but there was a dark and it was like a cat figure. It sounds weird, but it was like running around the ceiling and about to like drop on me. I know it sounds dumb.
Speaker 2No, no, no, Mine's always just been like a shadow figure, but then it would levitate like right over me.
Speaker 5Well, and sometimes you're aware like your spouse or your partner is beside you, but you can't alert them and you can't say anything.
Speaker 2The last time it happened, oh my gosh, it was probably like maybe 15, 16, no, maybe 18, 19 years ago. And yeah, like the shadow figure was coming down the hallway, I was obviously in bed with my husband and it literally Huh, not like the Mormon wives year was coming down the hallway.
Speaker 3I was obviously in bed with my husband and it literally couldn't huh, not that the Mormon wives, no, no no
Speaker 2no no, no, no, I don't share. We all know that, guys, I don't share. Are you kidding me? No, and yeah, like it completely levitated and it just was, like it literally permeated such bad energy and I just remembered thinking to myself Ashley, scream, scream, come on. You can do it, wake up. That's the most terrifying thing.
Speaker 5Oh my gosh, I've actually never talked to somebody who I used to have them all the time.
Speaker 3I'm thankful for my naked dreams. These are horrible.
Speaker 5I've never had those dreams, just so you know, and so everyone knows, if you take anything to assist with sleep or anything to help you sleep, your dreams become way more vivid. Not necessarily like sleep paralysis, but you will have much more vivid dreams. I don't know if you've ever noticed that, if you ever take anything to help you sleep, your dreams like so people come and they're like oh, I don't need more vivid dreams.
Speaker 5I remembered every single thing of my dreams and when I woke up I was thinking about what just happened and I was like that really happens all the time with those medications.
Speaker 2And then I can't even imagine if I took something, because, holy mother Mary.
Speaker 3I want to take Lunesta and listen to Matthew McConaughey. Read me a story and we'll see what happens.
Speaker 4Yeah maybe that'll be your amazing I've never taken a sleeping pill.
Speaker 2I am so terrified of Lunesta because well, first of all, my body reacts so weird to any type of pharmaceuticals and stuff like that and to any type of pharmaceuticals and stuff like that, and I've heard, like, where people be like pulled over in the middle of their town and their nightgown and they're like I think that's an Ambien thing, more than anything. Oh you're right, that's Ambien.
Speaker 5Ambien helps you go to sleep, and Lunesta typically keeps you asleep, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1So Ambien is so you have to take both of them.
Speaker 4No, no.
Speaker 5No, no, no one or the other, but Ambien is more where people have trouble falling asleep.
Speaker 1And.
Speaker 5Lunesta is like I am waking up every couple hours in the night, so they'll take Lunesta to keep them asleep through the night. They do different things in a way. I mean they're all sleep medications, like Trazodone. I mean there's a lot of sleep medications. Yeah, I have that for the dogs.
Speaker 2I actually have that for my pup.
Speaker 5Do they knock out?
Speaker 2Nope, my Coco does, yeah, my Coco does.
Speaker 5Tracidone can definitely knock you out, but Lunesta is usually to keep you asleep, so a lot of people, I think, are probably more on the Ambien too.
Speaker 2They're strong, All right. So yeah, so it was the Ambien, Because I was like, oh my God, I could just see that happening. Right now I'm going to be driving around my hometown Like just trainers.
Speaker 5Sleepwalking is like terrifying, I've had a roommate or two that was sleepwalking and it is terrifying, cause you wake up and they're like standing right there.
Speaker 2Oh my God, I would need an exercise. Why are you here? Why are you talking to me? I would need an exercise.
Speaker 3No, my mom she talks in her sleep. And my, my youngest son he used to like sleep with her when he was little and he was like mom grandma's freaked me out. So when I took her for a birthday to stay, she full on has conversations. Oh, she's probably just in her dream.
Speaker 1Just talking in her dream.
Speaker 3Yeah, I mean she has full on conversations, but it's funny, she gets mad at our dogs a lot in her sleep.
Speaker 1I learned when we were in a hotel room together.
Speaker 3She's out of her sleep.
Speaker 1But yeah, I was like when she first started talking.
Speaker 3I can't sleep anywhere near him because he like has full conversations.
Speaker 4That's interesting and he curses so badly in the sleep.
Speaker 2That's so funny. So, like, who are they talking to? Like, are they really?
Speaker 5talking. I think in the dream they're just engaged in what's going on.
Speaker 3But people who sleepwalk that's a whole different level. I think I sleep eat. That's what we do. No, I do I will. That's what we do. So listen my mom I think she always buys crap right and she loves. She thinks she's spoiling the kids, but I'm the one who eats it Because she lives in it, right. So I woke up this morning and I had a plate with like a cherry turnover thing, like half eaten last night.
Speaker 5I guess I like got in the middle of the night Like I was really tired and got up and I was like I kind of have remembered it, but I like ate, like I have a cherry turnip. There are people who literally have to, like they have to chain their like refrigerator and their cabinets at night, because they will. They will get up in the middle of the night and literally go eat almost everything and have no recollection at all A cherry turnip.
Insomnia, Stress, and Horror Films
Speaker 4I get so mad if I have to get up and pee. I see you too.
Speaker 2I try to talk to myself do you really, do you really?
Speaker 3I know it's not gonna be a good sleep, I know, but you're still not willing to get out, you're still like nope I'm so comfy, yeah and then you're just like oh, no, do you?
Speaker 5notice like now it's more and more like okay, it's 3 am, it's 5 am, it's like I'm going now.
Speaker 4I'm a good sleeper. I was a good sleeper.
Speaker 2I was a good sleeper until the past three weeks. And then it's 3 am 5 am no, I don't even yeah, like I just get up and make some coffee and then my brain just goes into like so you can't go back to sleep? No, I mean, and I've always been such a good sleeper. But yeah, stress to me like that's where it starts to impact, Is that?
Speaker 2my sleep and as soon as my eyes pop open, it's just. And why is that? Like, in the middle of the night you can have the same thought process, even if you're stressed, and you're like, okay, well, this is not making sense, but how I'm going to figure it out, whatever. But at night there is no figuring it out. It's so doom and gloom. It's like, oh my, when I'm awake I can figure it out in like two seconds.
Speaker 5I wouldn't be Lisa, that's because you're you're like exhaustion and when you're sleeping your beta and theta waves are doing like different things and it's just like very difficult to like get back into that. But our bodies are geared to like, okay, let's just go back to sleep. But if you wake up with a thought in your head like oh gosh, I forgot to do this, or what do I have to do tomorrow, and like if you go down that rabbit hole, you're never going to get back to sleep Lately.
Speaker 2I've even told myself when I wake up okay, you understand that this thought is not going to be a big deal tomorrow at nine o'clock or today. Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 5One of the best things I tell people to do who have like those racing thoughts and anxiety like 30 minutes before you go to bed, write down like everything in your head that you need to do tomorrow, that you need to get done. That's on your head, it's on your mind, whatever.
Speaker 2And then don't look at any screen. No TV, no screen. That's what I need to probably stop doing. Anything yeah.
Speaker 5Read the most boring book you can. Whatever Listen to like a very boring podcast or which is not us, by the way or anything that's like there's so many like sleep, go to sleep. Things on like. Youtube and just like listen to that or read something boring and then just like go to sleep. If you put it out on paper, honestly, it gets out of your head. It really does help.
Speaker 2Okay, that's amazing. Yeah, so, like I have lately, obviously everyone knows, well, hopefully everyone knows about the horrible situation in North Western North Carolina and. Eastern Tennessee. So I like every night before bed, I watch the reels and I'm just like thinking about them. But yeah, that's like I literally have even told myself when I wake up this is not going to be a big deal at 9 o'clock in the morning, you know this. Like you know that this is going to be fine.
Speaker 5And I still do, and I hate to say this, but like even now, like before an election before, like with everything going on, there are, like clients that I have to say your assignment is just don't watch TV.
Speaker 2Just don't watch the media.
Speaker 5Well, I've stopped watching, except for my housewives, because it gets stuck in your head and you're like hearing about all these deaths. It's doom and gloom it's like subconsciously it just comes in and whatever you're seeing before you go to bed really does affect what you dream. You know what when you're talking about dreams and dark figures you've actually scarred me, ashley.
Speaker 3Well, you are welcome. So when you? Because the other day we started to watch Dateline. It wasn't a Dateline, but it was like a docu-series on crime things. That's how I feel.
Speaker 2I do love some crime and relax, but it was about a kid who was possessed and we started to watch it.
Speaker 3I was like stop, stop, turn off. Ashley says you're bringing bad juju. If it's anything like that I do, I won't watch scary movies anymore that have to do with that kind of thing, because you freak me out with like the 80s, whatever, like the those crazy scary movies Like I don't think that was.
Speaker 2I mean, obviously it was crazy and psycho or whatever. I do think that scary movies nowadays do have a much darker intent and they're incredibly twisted, and so I think that there's there's definitely a change, and that's where I came to like, okay, I don't want any of that, I will watch my Dateline, I will watch my Law Order, but the scary stuff that's out there, that they make these movies and stuff. I do think that it has taken a much darker turn and just don't put yourself open to that nonsense, because it's totally different than like the Freddy Kruegers.
Speaker 5Yeah, you need to look back at that and be like, oh my gosh, I was scared of this.
Speaker 2Like this is funny Like.
Speaker 5Jaws.
Speaker 2Jaws is so funny now, yeah, yeah, like the very last scary movie that I watched and I mean I was younger, it was the Exorcist. And I literally remember the thought process Like this isn't right, like this is a freaked out no granted.
Speaker 5That is like based on a true story, but I think the more things are realistic, the more scary they are for people.
Speaker 2Yeah, and I think that, like yeah, if you just like you start to learn that, if you open yourself up to even watching something that has such negative energy that because we all I mean we've learned this we're all energy. So you either attract negative, you attract positive, but absolutely not. I will not even open up my house to those crazy things. Nope, nope, never watched them.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 2Freddie, I've never watched.
Speaker 4I've never seen the.
Speaker 5Omen yeah, no, I did. I've never seen the Omen. I've seen, but I don't watch it.
Speaker 2Nightmare on Elm Street, but that was all in the 80s and my girlfriend and I would have sleepovers and see if we could scare ourselves, of course, I thought about us because there was this saying.
Speaker 5it was like in the movie I know what you did last summer. If you're our age, it's like no, because I would forget, like I forgot what we did last summer.
Speaker 4I can't remember what we did last weekend. I don't even remember.
Speaker 5Yeah, I can't remember last weekend. You're right.
Speaker 4No.
Speaker 3All right, so I'm going to put back something funny again. So when I did the, Would you Rathers I had these prompts pop up. Okay, but this question I already know the answer for this one Would you win in an arm wrestle? Oh, who would win in an arm wrestle you or the person next to you? Don't piss Lisa Kelly off.
Speaker 2Lisa Kelly is a freaking badass, she could snap a neck.
Speaker 3Oh, wow, so I could have been the wine bottle. I mean, I like really, like I don't like that, like I really want to like do my thing. So I was like trying with all my might I mean it was, I said okay. I was really trying, I wouldn't say anything. And then I said, okay, can someone do this? Lisa grabbed it.
Speaker 2I swear, no, I mean she literally was snapping the neck and we were both like damn.
Speaker 3No, it was scary, like you today, how beautiful you are and how amazing, you are, don't basically carry me in a dark alley, that's all I can do. I can just open stuff. Well, I should have told that arm wrestling you, because that was for sure that was like we were both like well, that's shit, I mean it was not even like it was like Arm wrestling is the amount of testosterone.
Speaker 4That's what I'm saying Basically.
Speaker 5if arm wrestling were an Olympic sport, you would like lose the Kelly for the win. Oh, by the way, speaking of testosterone. Uh-oh, uh-oh.
Speaker 3I bought the Tweezerman because you said it.
Speaker 5What's the?
Speaker 3Tweezerman what's the Tweezerman guy?
Speaker 4The Tweezerman, tweezerman. Yeah, have you never had a Tweezerman? I've never had a Tweezerman. Oh, they're so amazing.
Speaker 2You just send the box to be sharpened.
Speaker 5And then if they go like dull or don't work anymore, you just send them back and they like sharpen them for you.
Speaker 3I remember because I have to keep one in my car and my tweezers stink. But she mentioned it. You were here, tweezerman.
Speaker 4You don't forget, it might have been the wine, or Tweezers are like my thing If I go, if I'm stuck anywhere, I will have a tweezer. Okay, so, speaking of hair and body, hair and stuff.
Speaker 3Do you guys shave like regularly? Yes, yes, okay, so I got lazy, but I I've like decided like cause when I wear scrubs every day, I know I always have my legs covered. But I just sorry, but I just decided like the other day.
Speaker 4I'm going to shave my legs every day and I, like I'm a man for three days if I don't Shit. No, I swear to God, I'm the hairiest person in life I've told you this before.
Speaker 2I know you have, but I still don't believe it. No, I am, because you're blonde.
Speaker 4No, I'm not, I'm not blonde. No, you're blonde, no. I'm like Ish darkest hair.
Speaker 3Wait, I don't think that I guess you leave it like a brows. You can wear brows. No, but brows aren't as dark as you were.
Speaker 4No but they're light now. Yeah, no, no, I'm as dark as I'd be, as dark as the darkest part of your hair.
Speaker 5We should all do laser hair removal. I did. I'm going to stare at your hair. Laser hair removal.
Embarrassing Moments and Social Media
Speaker 3Oh yeah, I'll show you later. These are actually really funny. Okay, here's one. What's the funniest thing?
Speaker 4you've ever done. Drunk, I fell asleep. I'm not funny when.
Speaker 2I'm drunk, ride a bull at a rodeo and continuously dance on a bar Like a real bull Yep.
Speaker 3No, it was walked out with a cowboy.
Speaker 2I've danced with Elvis on a bar before.
Speaker 3Yeah, that's cute, not really Elvis, but yeah, I'm not a funny drunk, I would have to say that.
Speaker 4I mean I've done really stupid stuff.
Speaker 3I mean, I could ride him a capitol, though, like no other.
Speaker 2Yeah, no, this was a real bowl. And then they asked me to like say the closing speech. I probably sounded like an absolute idiot.
Speaker 4Oh, oh my god, I'd love to be a funny drunk so oh my god, I definitely get more fun when I drink.
Speaker 2we were at a dude ranch in arizona and we had been drinking all day and no actually wine. And then, like some of the cowboys had started like with the whiskey and you know I'm sucker for a good whiskey and then I just literally thought it would be so amazing. And then I just walked up to this cowboy and I was like can I get on? Anyway, wow, that's impressive.
Speaker 4But I just do super. I wish I was funny.
Speaker 3You're funny all the time You're funny without drinking.
Speaker 4Well, exactly, but I well, I'd be asleep. That's right, I can't drink before seven o'clock.
Speaker 2See if I cause we all know that I go to bed at like seven. Ah, yeah, so anytime, guys, anytime. There's like a text message with our group.
Speaker 5I said that to you last night, ashley's asleep.
Speaker 2It was ten past eight, but if I'm drinking it can be two, three o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1Oh, my gosh Like just game on.
Speaker 3Oh wow, dancing singing just, I definitely crash faster now. Okay, here's another one. Okay, have you ever blamed a fart on someone else? Absolutely.
Speaker 5Absolutely Child.
Speaker 3I thought that was the best thing about babies.
Speaker 2But first of, all we don't toot, but if we did, we would absolutely absolutely that was the best when you had a baby.
Speaker 3oh, your diaper's poopy. Oh, my goodness, look at you, you little stinky thing. So this is. I have an embarrassing moment. So I was a tour guide at a cave. We talked about that before. I was a tour guide at a cave. So cave air is like stagnant, right Stagnant.
Speaker 2I don't like where this is going. It's so bad.
Speaker 3It's bad. So like usually two or three, like 35, 40 people, right, we go through. And I had bad gas one day and so I was given like a little spiel about this one place where you see the bat poop stains on the ceiling, and I had gas and I was like I smell bat shit in here. I was like, oh my God, it was so horrible. But it was not. That was the bads. But I let them blame it on the bads.
Speaker 4No, that was amazing.
Speaker 3I think the bads are fine. Those bads are awful. That's being dedicated to the role.
Speaker 2You have manifested method acting. You manifested the bad poop.
Speaker 3You should be an actress Speaking of poop. Here's another one. Oh my gosh, these are really good. I could go online, so we'll cut them out here. Would you rather pee every time you laugh or shart every time you sneeze? Well, we already pee.
Speaker 4every time we laugh, that's already a given.
Speaker 5I pee when I sneeze as well, so awful getting older.
Speaker 2It's terrible.
Speaker 3What's the funniest nickname you've ever had?
Speaker 2I don't think I've ever really had. I don't think anyone's called me a nickname. I haven't had a nickname that I'm aware of.
Speaker 4Yeah me, neither, I don't even have. We're not big on nicknames, really See, I had one.
Speaker 5Did you? Yeah, I was Buggles, because they said that my eyes were bugging out of my head Because I had big eyes and they were like you have pretty eyes, I eyes.
Speaker 3I was like your eyes don't bugle out?
Speaker 2No, they don't. Well, that was someone that was jealous of you when I was younger.
Speaker 5They were like oh my God, your eyes are so big, they're bugging out of your head. Honey, that was just someone that was jealous of you.
Speaker 3I used to be tish-a-dish and actually I was told Lisa Hurst then calls me TK Money now.
Speaker 2TK Money, tk Money. I feel like that needs to be a song.
Speaker 3He probably has one. Here's the last one. What's the cringiest thing you've ever shared on social media?
Speaker 2I don't share. I don't think I've shared anything on.
Speaker 4I don't think I share, like, oh, I'm not really a soppy, sappy person, so I probably shared something cringy about Scott that I felt I had to do to be a good wife, and not that I wouldn't have meant it. I'm just not that person. I'm not a romantic person. Right which you told me last night that I'm not romantic at all, that I'm the least romantic.
Speaker 2Who said that? Wait, Scott said that.
Speaker 3Yeah, he told me I'm not romantic.
Speaker 2We have to come up with something really romantic for you, I know.
Speaker 3I'm not romantic.
Speaker 1But that's not a bad.
Speaker 2And it makes him happy and we're like, we're fine with that. Like he realizes that, like I'm not going to yeah, I'm just not going to romance.
Speaker 5I don't want romance, I think that on social media is like too much.
Speaker 3Yeah, I don't like to Well.
Speaker 5I guess. I was like I don't really think that I've shared that much.
Speaker 3I'm not even like an anniversary or like like years back. I'm like, oh my God, like I can't believe one of my friends and say what the hell, trisha, that doesn't even look like you Like those are. That's definitely my worst.
Speaker 4One is like but sure, that's everybody. I keep bumping into people that I'm friends with and I spent the whole time looking at their face gun. It's no.
Speaker 5My kids will like crack up because I don't notice any of that stuff. But they'll look at them and be like her eyelashes, like go up to the like. Welcome sign. Like if you're like oh yeah, no, I never noticed that. Or like her, you know, whatever, like. It's just weird that they say like oh, her eyelashes are like into her hairline.
Speaker 1And I'm like wait what.
Speaker 3I know someone who does like you can touch it. She's not very good at it Because her husband always has on makeup too Like when she does it, she doesn't realize she's not. So you see, he has on lipstick and blush.
Speaker 2Oh my gosh you gotta figure out the filters. That would be funny.
Speaker 4That's not good though.
Speaker 2That's why filters get me in trouble, because I wouldn't even know how to stop that. I don't even know how to do a filter.
Speaker 5Honestly on Instagram, I'm like I have no idea. I don't know how to use Instagram.
Speaker 4I started using Instagram. I don't know how to use it. Yeah, I don't know how to use it Can you follow me, Lisa.
Speaker 3Thank you for following me. You're welcome. Are you on Instagram? Yeah, but I don't know what I'm doing.
Speaker 2You know, but I'm not on.
Speaker 4Instagram Like I am.
Speaker 2I have a presence. I'll give my kids the phone.
Speaker 4I'd be lost without Facebook, though I really would. It keeps me connected with so many people at home. Well, and that's true. I love that, I really do. I get to see people. I mean, I think that there are benefits, but, oh, I think the more that I feel like I've got very good at kind of going okay, regardless of it's not because of them, it's because of how I feel when I see them. I had to do. You know what? If I'll tell you something I found out about myself, but I only found out from pure bar, do you know what I can't cope with? You're going to have a field day with this.
Speaker 2Okay, here we go. What is that?
Speaker 4I can't cope with that chart in the. I can't cope with that chart.
Speaker 3What's the challenge?
Speaker 4So we're doing a challenge yeah, a challenge that you do 60 classes in 30 days. No, it's 30 classes in 60 days, oh, in 60 days. And there's a chart at the back and someone said to me you need to put your name up on the chart. And I literally went into panic mode going, oh, I can't do that. But I didn't know I couldn't do that Just because you ripped the heads off of wine bottles.
Speaker 4Like you're just no, I just I feel I was like it's commitment, no, it's competition, oh, competition, that I just I was like.
Speaker 2I get you take 30 classes in 60 days. I probably do.
Speaker 4I don't look at my count. Yeah, I don't know how many classes I've done, but I know if I had to be accountable for that, that would drive me nuts.
Speaker 3See, I'm really competitive. That's why, when I try, to open the wine bottle and then, lisa, just Sorry, I ruined that for you, I do feel that's more of an American thing, though.
Speaker 5The competitiveness. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 4I do feel it's a very, and again it comes down to like even your football teams.
Speaker 3And yeah, yes, yeah, but then I'm so not competitive. You're kind of an American now, though, right.
Speaker 4Yeah, but I don't have a team. I don't care, I just want everyone to be happy. See, just be happy Just while I play. Yeah.
Speaker 2Just be happy.
Speaker 3Just be happy. Well, let's cheers to that.
Speaker 2Cheers, that sounded pretty.
Speaker 4It did. It did even with the can.
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