MIDDLE AGEish

Sofa Talk: Crime Scenes to Celebrities and the Quirks of Middle Age

Ashley Bedosky, Lisa Kelly, Dr. Pam Wright, and Trisha Kennedy Roman Season 2 Episode 2

Have you ever caught a calculating glance from a serial killer or pondered the implications of a hungover Riverdance audition? Join Trisha Kennedy-Roman, Lisa Kelly and Dr. Pam Wright on a journey through the peculiarities of middle age and beyond. From the pride of Trisha's Air Force Academy appointment to the civic complexities of jury duty, we weave tales of life's unexpected quirks with humor and authenticity.

Join us on the sofa as we pull back the curtain on the chilling world of crime scene research, recalling my days as a news reporter and the eerie experiences that came with it. Ever heard of a body farm in Knoxville? We'll take you there, metaphorically, of course. And because we love to mix the macabre with the glitzy, we debate the snubs and surprises of the Oscars, celebrate contrasting cinematic wonders, and dish out on celebrity life, from Taylor Swift's rumored engagement to Travis Kelce's down-to-earth family values.

As we wrap up, we don't shy away from the deep or the trivial—pondering whether we'd prefer the luxury of a personal maid or chef, and sharing endearing tales of love and lifelong friendships formed through the most serendipitous encounters. Our conversations aren't complete without considering alternate paths, like the skies of a flight attendant, or the promise of intriguing future guests, from mediums to sex therapists. So grab your earbuds and settle in for a season of genuine connection, laughter, and a smidgen of Irish slang for good measure.


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Speaker 1:

Welcome to the Middle-Age-ish podcast, authentically and unapologetically, keeping it real, discussing all things middle-age-ish, a time when metabolism slows and confidence grows. Join fashion and fitness entrepreneur Ashley Badosky, former Celtic woman and founder of the Lisa Kelly Voice Academy, lisa Kelly, licensed psychologist and mental health expert, dr Pam Wright, and highly sought-after cosmetic injector and board-certified nurse practitioner, trisha Kennedy-Roman. Join your hosts on the journey of Middle-Age-ish.

Speaker 2:

Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of Middle-Age-ish. I'm Trisha Kennedy-Roman and I'm joined here today with my co-host, lisa Kelly and Dr Pam Wright. We are missing Ashley Badosky almost said Ashley's name. I was in my role there, but we are missing Ashley tonight. We'll miss her, but we are glad to be here again tonight to do our sofa talk.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, the trio. A rainy night in Georgia. It's a rainy night it is.

Speaker 2:

yeah, it's gonna be raining too, just getting warmer. I know I think. I know I know Lisa's not really excited about the weather. I'm gonna get it in.

Speaker 3:

It gets cold again next week, back to the 30s but then highs of 60s. But yeah, I know the rain is terrible. I hate hot rain. I don't know how you guys have put it in for us.

Speaker 2:

I don't think it's hot rain.

Speaker 4:

Right now it's still pretty cold, but it's gonna be for five days, right? I know you're like looking at me like cold. It's not cold. Yeah, it's just cold it is.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, no, I know this kind of weather is the worst, though. This is sookie weather yes, but the cold, the winter is gone.

Speaker 4:

Maybe it's only in January have to wait for grand talk day. Oh yeah, that's what, February 18th.

Speaker 3:

Is it the first? I think it's February 1st.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, not sure.

Speaker 3:

I think it is February 1st or 2nd.

Speaker 4:

We need to see how often is that groundhog right? Is he correct?

Speaker 3:

Probably, it's very often.

Speaker 4:

Oh, is it 50%. 75%.

Speaker 3:

I don't know, I've never heard it in a sense. So I moved to America and then you're like what is this?

Speaker 2:

It's about as accurate as a weatherman, I think.

Speaker 4:

That's exactly. We're gonna look at our weather based on the groundhog.

Speaker 3:

She's like what is this, what is this? And he was grand talking. I thought it was a movie.

Speaker 5:

It is a movie, but yeah, see him.

Speaker 2:

Everyone have a good week. Yeah, and I did. We had our celebration for my son in the Air Force Academy.

Speaker 5:

So that was all the day.

Speaker 2:

That's why I'm dressed up and not in scrubs. I know you look so nice. It was so fun. I was very, very proud of him. Super excited. Is he excited? Very excited? It was a really nice ceremony.

Speaker 5:

Good.

Speaker 3:

Did they do that for every kid, or was it just his school that do it for?

Speaker 2:

everyone. I think it just depends, because the congressman came to so it was probably his schedule, so some people just get a call with their appointment, but they made a pretty big deal about him this time so it was pretty cool.

Speaker 3:

I'm excited for him.

Speaker 4:

He's going on Such an honor.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, maybe fabulous. Yes, I'm excited, so excited.

Speaker 5:

Very proud.

Speaker 2:

And Ashley, I gotta move my mic. I feel like I'm looking to the right, sorry for the sound effects, but I couldn't look at you guys. So Ashley is doing jury duty now. I'm so jealous.

Speaker 4:

No, why are you jealous? That's like my worst nightmare Exactly. Nobody wants to do jury duty.

Speaker 2:

I would do it if it was like a really good industry, like a date line We've listened to so much true crime, though, I think we'll be like it's really nice. They won't let us Like it's a traffic ticket.

Speaker 3:

They probably wouldn't want. Yeah, they wouldn't want to. Yeah, my friend did jury duty not so long ago and it turns out when she, after the case, you know, she called me and she told me about us and I was like I know that guy, are you doing? I knew the guy so I wouldn't have been able to do it yet it was a local man who had been shot.

Speaker 2:

Now it's the worst family world to see jury duty papers. Yes, I've never seen them.

Speaker 3:

We might have to now because you're a citizen, but I've never been asked to do it in Ireland either, so Interesting.

Speaker 2:

I don't know what it is about me? Yes, have you guys seen the real if we have talked about this before the reality TV show jury duty? Yes, you were. Yeah, you were telling me about it.

Speaker 5:

Is it good?

Speaker 2:

Oh my gosh, it's so good you never watched it.

Speaker 5:

I haven't watched it, yet I loved it.

Speaker 2:

I loved it. It was like what's your problem? Like the Truman show, where the guy who he thought it was on jury duty and everyone else around him they were all actors. And it was hysterical and he basically went through this whole trial and just really showed his character, which is amazing, and you just fall in love with this guy. So sweet and the anyone apprised, but it was, it's hysterical, like their actors were so good, oh wow, it was so good.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I'd say if it's a really long case it must be so hard, like for work and everything. It's so hard.

Speaker 2:

Oh, it's hard when you're paid like nothing. It's the nothing to do it, so that's mad it must be a hard thing, or your civic duty. I just had jury duty I spent several months ago but I was on call so I had to with my patients, like, basically, I had a note on my schedule, every patient I scheduled, to let them know that I might have to cancel last minute and so fortunately I didn't get called in, but I still got my schedule, in case I did get called in.

Speaker 2:

So it kind of stuck because it was two weeks on call so I kept my schedule pretty light to where if we had every scheduled patient, so it went bad.

Speaker 3:

So it's kind of crazy, when you think about it, though, that, like, regular people are on a jury, like, and you're making a decision about somebody's life, and you're like. I can't make a decision about what I want for breakfast.

Speaker 2:

Well, at least you're with a group, so it's not too sudden.

Speaker 5:

You like, say the times when it's just the judge.

Speaker 2:

That's what I think. Oh my gosh, I'm so hard because you're changing.

Speaker 5:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

So I gosh, I'm too indecisive. There's no way I could be a judge That'd be so hard, I couldn't be a judge.

Speaker 3:

I wouldn't have the attention spot to be listening. That's the other problem for jury duty. For me they would have no attention spot.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, See, if I had a second career. I would love to be an attorney.

Speaker 4:

I think you would.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, oh, gosh, I would love to be like a prosecuting attorney.

Speaker 2:

I love to research and I love to argue.

Speaker 5:

I just want to tell you I'm really good at that. You get paid to argue.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, to get paid to argue and I'm a really good arguer, so I get paid a lot to argue, that'd be so good.

Speaker 4:

You would be good at it. Good for you.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that would have been if I did a second career. That would have been what I'd love to have done. I love it but. I'm fun.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I always think I'd like to do that, but I think I'd rather be in the crime end of it as opposed to being the lawyer. Again, I don't have the attention spot, so you want to do the investigative?

Speaker 5:

scene like go to the crime scene and do all the ballistics and all that testing.

Speaker 3:

Or your job, but with criminals Like criminal psychologists.

Speaker 4:

No.

Speaker 3:

No. I should have any that'd be interesting getting the minds of like risk phone. Well, I was just going to squeeze Dr Pums.

Speaker 2:

Dr Pums is going off.

Speaker 3:

Emergency emergency yes it's probably spam.

Speaker 4:

Now, actually, I used to be a news reporter so I sat in a courtroom with a serial killer who was convicted and that was very interesting. But I can just tell you that they have this like see through you kind of. Oh yeah, like when you interview someone like that, it's like they are looking straight through you. I don't know how to explain it.

Speaker 2:

I like it, but they for one.

Speaker 4:

Yeah it's just it's very, it was very creepy. So I was a news reporter at the time, so I was not a psychologist, so my role was very different, but it was still very, very creepy.

Speaker 2:

In college I took a class called serial killers, which was actually a super interesting class, but it was like an evening class and walking back to my dorm every time I was horrified. But one of the things I picked up in the kids think I'm crazy. But as far as locking my door, because one of the serial killers he said that the way he picked people was if their door is unlocked, it was basically walking them in. So I'm crazy about locking my doors, even during the day or if I'm going out because, that serial killers class.

Speaker 4:

It's funny how they have so much alike in common profiles.

Speaker 5:

You know this from like watching all that Mm-hmm.

Speaker 4:

It's interesting.

Speaker 3:

And you know they've done. They've done like studies that most of the time in prisons when they do a lineup of people most like murderers or serial killers will pick the same victim, like they'll line up a bunch of women or a bunch of men or whatever, but the majority of murderers and serial killers go for the same type of person.

Speaker 4:

Wow.

Speaker 3:

That's kind of crazy.

Speaker 5:

Mm-hmm, they can do this in weeks and they're very intelligent yeah, they're very intelligent, so they have a keen sense of who to go after.

Speaker 4:

But probably my most interesting story that you would think is interesting is going to the body farm. Oh, wow. So when I was a news reporter in Knoxville there actually is a real body farm and Dr Bass runs it and he would do all these different tests. What is body farm so? I guess basically it's when people's bodies are donated to science. Mm-hmm.

Speaker 4:

So he would take, he was taking the body at the time that I was there and this was like years and years and years ago. But he was doing like different races and genders and putting them at different levels of water and seeing how the body decomposes at different levels of water Based on your gender, age and race. Wow, so he's written about in all the books, the Cornwell books, yeah, yeah, so he is really written about, but he would literally. So I met him, we talked to him. It's so interesting because I would interview him all the time and you would talk to him and he would just talk about a dead body, like it's, you know, just like your job, your job, my job. It was so interesting. But he would go in the early days like they would call him out to crime scenes and based on the maggots, the maggots and bugs or whatever was there, he would tell them exactly how long they had been To see he's done all those different things.

Speaker 4:

But then he literally did research in the body farm which is right near. It was near UT hospital in Tennessee, knoxville. That's where my buddies go. It was very interesting.

Speaker 3:

But that was a creepy place, I'd say it is yeah, but it's a like you have to, you have to have places like that.

Speaker 4:

And they need that, yeah, and figure things out.

Speaker 3:

Oh, I'd love that.

Speaker 5:

See, I think that would have been the job.

Speaker 3:

I'd like to work with the body farm.

Speaker 4:

Yes, I'd like to put people on the same. Please tell us again. In the body farm, you would have been a great corner.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah, cut them up and see what happens. Except, I can't do with toenails, so oh, no, no, no.

Speaker 2:

Can't go help my husband at work, then no, no, can't do no, no, no, I don't mind feet, I'm just counting toenails.

Speaker 3:

I just you know those ads for the fungus medicine post. I can't do that. You're like nope, yeah, so I can do everything from the toes up.

Speaker 2:

I'm amazed when I see, like go to the office with him, all the things that can go wrong with the feet. Like you just have no idea, but just watching there's just so many things that can go wrong with feet. Feet are important.

Speaker 3:

They are very important.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, doctors like your husband, are very important.

Speaker 3:

Yes.

Speaker 2:

Because I could not look at people's feet all day, neither. Nope, I'm glad I'm at the head.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 4:

Those are the worst places to be.

Speaker 2:

Yes, yes, they are definitely worst places to be. Not just the feet I picked the head.

Speaker 4:

You picked the head.

Speaker 5:

Not those lips.

Speaker 2:

Not those lips, not those lips.

Speaker 4:

No, no, no, you're like no, no, no. That's not funny. You would work at that for season two.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I know exactly, it's so funny.

Speaker 3:

Like I didn't do, I was only having this conversation of my parents are still ever. My dad's a biology teacher and science teacher and when I was going into high school we had a choice between home economics and science and I said to my dad, what'll I do? And he was like you're going to hate science. I was like no, I think I like science. He was like no, no, you're going to hate science. And he sat me down. I think he must have talked to me about plants, which, to be fair, I kill every plant. So I was like okay, you know I hate this.

Speaker 3:

I'd much rather be able to cook, but now that so I did home economics, which was useless when I was in school, but I do love to cook, but I can't sell, and so now though, I'm like I would have loved science. I would have loved that part. My dad's fascinated with buddies, and so my mom liked to be fair. They're both kind of into that kind of thing, but, yeah, I think I would have loved us.

Speaker 4:

I think it would be. I don't know, it'd be interesting. Yeah, I'm fascinated with the way the body works.

Speaker 3:

The research part would be interesting, yeah.

Speaker 4:

And the investigative like how did this person actually die? Was it, yes, bullet drowning, whatever? Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I always like to like try to understand how people think. I mean, I do it with everything, but I think that, just like, how do their minds work and how do they? I don't know, it's crazy. It's when people are weird. Well, you got me into that podcast, this commanda, oh I know, and that one I've just, I've really tried to like, think I've been like, or listened to it.

Speaker 3:

It's really interesting. She's just like I think, like I have to believe that she actually believed that too, that she didn't, even though I know she was scamming everybody. I wonder if part of her brain actually believed that she was sick.

Speaker 2:

Or how do you? How do you scam people and not feel bad? I don't guess people do a lot of things about it, but I just don't understand how how her brain would be, okay with scamming people and no empathy, no empathy.

Speaker 3:

I really do think that's a huge amount of psychopath Psychopath what's the difference between sociopath and psychopath.

Speaker 4:

Well, they're very similar Praying on people and just. But I do think you're right. I think some people after a while believe their own lies. You would have to have that much bias.

Speaker 3:

Well, I think you create a character, so you have to, you have to live that character. You're acting as somebody else, so you have to live as that character the whole time.

Speaker 2:

It's too much. Keep it up on myself. I can't keep up with. Oh, I know. Can you imagine how old you are?

Speaker 3:

No, it's too much, I couldn't. I'm also a terrible liar, so you'd know straight away. Yeah.

Speaker 4:

I saw that I'm speaking. I was thinking about you because the whole crime thing.

Speaker 3:

But the member of Lacey Peterson the other husband like they're going back into the?

Speaker 4:

yeah, they're taking his case.

Speaker 3:

Do you ever listen to the Innocence Project?

Speaker 4:

Oh my gosh, it's interesting.

Speaker 3:

It's an incredible podcast, so quite a lot of time. It's about people who've been, you know, who are innocent and who are in jail for crimes that didn't commit, and they've been there for a really, really long time. So they've like the Central Park rapists, they've, you know, their most old great got off.

Speaker 3:

As far as I can remember, they all got off, but they, this Innocence Project, go in and they fight for them and they try to bring up new evidence. So it's Scott Peterson in California who apparently murdered his wife and is in jail for murdering his wife. He they are fighting his case.

Speaker 4:

Which is interesting. I wonder what the new like the new thing is that they found out that makes him look innocent.

Speaker 3:

So it was all to do with. I mean, I only got glimpse of it. So it was to do with a van, some van and some break-in. That happened in her neighborhood the day before or two days before, and there's some new evidence that's come to light about it. But I remember at the time like he was, I think, was that did we talk about this not so long ago? No, so one of the first Celtic woman interviews we did on the Today Show, his mistress was being interviewed at the time I do, I do, I mean, I'm not, I'm a friend.

Speaker 3:

Amber Frey, amber Frey, amber Frey, amber Frey, and she was like she was so interesting to listen to and she was part of bringing him down, but it was one of the first. Was it one of the first cases that they didn't have? They had no idea how she died, so they'd no murder weapon. They just found her torso and the babies.

Speaker 5:

And the water right.

Speaker 3:

The babies body in the water, so they had no idea how she was, so it's yeah. I mean, there was a lot of kind of cliffhangers on us.

Speaker 4:

But yeah, but he at the time I mean obviously media, but he looks so guilty.

Speaker 3:

Like he looks so guilty. Yeah, like 20 years ago.

Speaker 4:

What 20 years.

Speaker 3:

I think it's 20 years, close to 20 years. Well, I think if your wife is missing.

Speaker 2:

probably not good to whether you did or not be with the mistress during that time.

Speaker 3:

No, but he had told his mistress that his wife was dead. So, like he had done, he was talking about her in the past tense, so there was a lot of things pointing to him at the time. But yeah, I mean, the justice system is scary, interesting.

Speaker 2:

Interesting as well. I think, though, that, like it's amazing how they kind of had the foresight to collect evidence for DNA yeah, that when we didn't have DNA. But how horrible is the people who have been in prison for years and years and years, and then DNA shows like they could have done it, they just didn't do it, but they don't get out.

Speaker 3:

That's the other thing. Like, just because you're a fan, that you didn't do it doesn't necessarily mean you get out of prison here, which is that's interesting.

Speaker 4:

Hello to my mind.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, there's like there's a whole bunch of like hoops. I know I just actually you're talking about that. This brings me home.

Speaker 2:

I'm I'm making documentaries because I like more of real life stuff and we just watch one and I I don't know why Like I'm very empathetic we talk about all the time, but like I was feeling this so much. But this woman, when she was young she young like early late teens, early twenties had lived with her boyfriend who was involved in a lot of bad stuff drugs, guns, everything and he was murdered. Well, she was in trouble for it because she lived, so she was an accessory, basically because if you have knowledge of the crime in this particular state, then you're an accessory. And so I wish I could remember the name of this podcast it was great or not, podcast documentary. So she was in trouble for it. Well, then they let it go that they didn't prosecute her.

Speaker 2:

She moved back home, had a wonderful family. Her parents were just amazing, her siblings so loving her. She got married, had I think it was three little girls and it had been six years since that had happened had a knock on the door, got arrested and she was in prison for I think it was 15 years it was a 15 year minimum and she got out. I believe it was half the time on parole, but watching her brother was so sweet. He like fought for her to get out forever, but watching the documentary watching her little girls growing up and like not having a mom, because I mean obviously bad decisions, but that seems so extreme, especially when people do a lot worse and have less time in this particular state it just she was an accessory.

Speaker 2:

And I just think back like when I was young, 1920s, making dumb decisions or maybe not having the best of boyfriend, and just how that could have.

Speaker 3:

Oh, I know it's horrible, oh it's terrifying when you think back Of situations you could have got yourself into.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, because you don't even your brain still developing. Gosh, what is it Boys are like. What is it Like? They're like what's the age of the girl? 24 or something, yeah, so anyway, it was just. It was such a sad documentary, but just watching her when she got out to like seeing her little girls dance dress that she had when she was like five and now she's a teenager and just all that stuff she messed. Yeah, it was sad, so yeah.

Speaker 4:

Was it overturned? Is that why she got out, or she served the max amount?

Speaker 2:

She got clemency.

Speaker 5:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

But it was basically I think. I think it was seven or eight years, I can't remember now, but she was in there a long time. Like the documentary started with her little kids, little and then they were much older.

Speaker 2:

So it was just sad and seeing how much the kids suffered too. Yeah, and her dad I mean her dad was I cried and cried and cried this documentary. But her dad was so sweet because he would go out every day and drive around and look for a medal by a trash can, by trash cans, and collect it to get money so he could send her $40 every week to call her kids. I mean just watching him and just how much he missed his daughter when she came back. It was, it was a tear shaker, oh yeah.

Speaker 4:

I'm sure.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, it's just crazy, crazy system Mad.

Speaker 2:

Don't commit a crime, I guess.

Speaker 3:

No, exactly.

Speaker 2:

Nope, better behave ourselves, don't look like she's doing a crime.

Speaker 3:

Did you see the Oscar nominations came out? I didn't see who.

Speaker 4:

I didn't see it. I didn't see yet.

Speaker 3:

So it's like the real life Barbie movie, because Greta Gerwig did not get nominated, for she's the director of Barbie.

Speaker 5:

She didn't get nominated.

Speaker 3:

Okay, she's a female director didn't get nominated. Margot Robbie, who was Barbie, did not get nominated, but Ken did.

Speaker 4:

But didn't they just win everything on the Golden Globes, right, golden Globes, that's what it was.

Speaker 3:

I don't think she won Best Actress. I don't think she didn't win Best Actress, it was Emma Stone. But yeah, but like Barbie won.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, they were all a lot of things.

Speaker 3:

And Barbie's of all these awards and people are going. This is like the real life. Barbie Ken got nominated and he's been amazing. He came out. This is like not right. There wouldn't have been a movie without these women in it. It's titled. Barbie, I know it's crazy. It's crazy.

Speaker 4:

It's crazy, especially because, they just racked up everything, I feel like a couple of weeks ago.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, and the Oscars are different to everything else, because the Oscars are like, nominated by your fellow actors and fellow directors, and it's just a bit of a slap.

Speaker 4:

She was so good. I think she was great.

Speaker 3:

She was a great actress on the Barbie movie.

Speaker 2:

I have all boys, so it's not.

Speaker 3:

They haven't seen us.

Speaker 4:

They love us. It's actually good. Yeah, it has a good message on top of being.

Speaker 2:

I just didn't get how the whole Oppenheimer and Barbie was paired, because those are so very different movies. Did you see them both?

Speaker 3:

I saw both yeah, within a week of each other. You did.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, I did so much I didn't see the other one, oppenheimer, oppenheimer is fabulous, fabulous, really, really, really good movie as well. So they're both good, they're both excellent, just very different.

Speaker 3:

I'm sure, total opposite. I mean, I wouldn't have, I can't even tell you the last movie you saw in the theater In the Napoleon. Oh, it was terrible, it was, it was absolutely horrific. Yeah, dreadful.

Speaker 4:

What about you? I know I've met the movies forever oh no, I didn't.

Speaker 2:

I went to Godzilla. I didn't know it was in. I didn't know it wasn't in English.

Speaker 5:

So it's all Japanese with subtitles, was it good?

Speaker 2:

It actually was good. I was like, are you kidding me? Like we it's like nobody's speaking English. But it was actually good, so it it got me to read. I don't read a lot, so I was reading the movie.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, what was the last one you saw?

Speaker 4:

Probably Barbie. Wow, yeah, I wanted to. Well, I wanted to see Mean Girls, but everybody said that it's a musical.

Speaker 5:

I know it and dreadful, and no one it wasn't musical until they went to see it, and said that it was a huge musical on Broadway and the music is fabulous.

Speaker 3:

Yes, but I haven't seen the show.

Speaker 4:

I haven't seen the movie but neither I've seen the show of my kids once they were like it's terrible.

Speaker 3:

Do you like musicals? I love musicals.

Speaker 2:

I do yeah, I love a good musical I love them. My mom loves musicals. I'm just not a musical person.

Speaker 3:

Have you listened to Hamilton?

Speaker 4:

Yeah, so good In the Heights.

Speaker 3:

In the Heights is good too, but you can put on like Hamilton in the car for your drive and like it's telling a story through rap. It's so nice, like it's totally different. Even if you don't like musicals, you'd like this.

Speaker 4:

And then, well, he's so amazing, he's so incredible.

Speaker 3:

You would love it yeah.

Speaker 2:

If I'm going to listen to someone saying I want to be either Taylor Swift or Lisa Kelly.

Speaker 5:

Did you hear they're going to get?

Speaker 2:

engaged. They've been saying that I would love it.

Speaker 4:

I was going to say I thought about you.

Speaker 2:

I'm ridiculously embarrassingly into this relationship.

Speaker 4:

I know it's ridiculous. She's gonna watch the Super Bowl just to see when they show.

Speaker 2:

I mean, I watched football now.

Speaker 3:

Oh yeah, we watched on Sunday night the. Kansas, swifty Chiefs.

Speaker 2:

Did they show her yeah. Yeah, of course I mean they're definitely back in now, which I do get limiting it. You know, I get that because there are people just watching it. But who cares that? They flashed her. I love it. Yeah, positiveness See in relationship.

Speaker 4:

They're only showing her once or twice, right Like I haven't. Okay, I haven't seen that His brother, still the Thunder. Oh gosh, I did see that. I saw that the next day. I adore his brother.

Speaker 2:

I think he's. I love him because he's so humble. He's. If you watch the documentary because now I've watched everything related to Kelsey, because I'm obsessed with this relationship but he's such a humble guy, I mean he's just. He's just normal. They're very normal. That's what I love about him.

Speaker 4:

And the brother. He retired correct.

Speaker 2:

Well, they're saying it's so funny. I've never seen, I didn't realize how much celebrity gossip actually happens, because I think he's retiring but he hasn't actually announced it yet. But that came out and I think that, just like with his wife Kylie Kelsey, like they'll say things about that she said that Taylor Swift wasn't her cup of tea. Well, I saw the interview and she said that being in the spotlight wasn't really her cup of tea. She used to be in behind, you know the camera because so stuff like that, like I just can't.

Speaker 2:

It's crazy to see I've never really paid attention to how much the media twists things.

Speaker 4:

They do.

Speaker 3:

Oh, as someone who used to be in the media, which is not great, but it's even like having done interviews and you'll answer something and then you'll see what they put in and you're like that's not a threat.

Speaker 4:

That's nothing like what they said, or it was taken out of context of the way you said it.

Speaker 3:

It's so frustrating and the key is always the cut away.

Speaker 4:

So in other words, if I'm interviewing you and my camera is on your face and then whatever you're saying, then we cut away to the crime scene or the fire or whatever. Does that make sense? And then it's like then, who knows, if you said that right, then yeah, you may have said something different that they just sliced together.

Speaker 2:

I guess I'm the reason I'm thankful for not being talented and famous here.

Speaker 3:

But you have that power when you do like your podcast.

Speaker 4:

You can edit us to make us out of really great or really horrible. That's true. That's what she said.

Speaker 2:

This is what Lisa really said yes, ai it.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah. That's terrifying in itself, grace, but also terrifying.

Speaker 4:

That's interesting.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, it's a different world everybody's grown up in. It's crazy, everybody's using it Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2:

It is helpful for a lot of things. I mean, I think that there are some benefits, but it's kind of scary, even going to restaurants and stuff now when everything is all automated. It's just, it's cool, but it's scary because what's going to happen with people, you know, and jobs.

Speaker 3:

It's crazy, yeah. So people complaining here in Beach Street City the other day because sorry, all our publics are, now have their self check-outs.

Speaker 4:

I heard that too. People are very upset about that. People were upset walking into the store.

Speaker 3:

I'm not upset about that. I don't have to talk. It's like if I want to talk again and then if I don't. If I want to check out my stuff myself, I can. So why are they upset? Because it loses the community kind of vibe of you know.

Speaker 2:

I think it's nice to have both, because some people like my mom would not do all the self-checkouts. She's 81 years old, so I think it's nice to have both. Sometimes I don't feel like messing with the you know if it's vegetables or something that's going to have to, you know be kind of paining, exactly. But sometimes I want to go through, so I think it's nice to have both options.

Speaker 3:

Oh yeah. Or if you're buying alcohol and you have to wait for somebody to come over. So are they doing away with all of the cashiers, or just no, no, no, they're doing half and half, oh half and half.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, that's not a big deal Because you could still decide yeah.

Speaker 3:

I like Target where there's like it's mostly self-check out now there's only one person. So you're like am I going to line up with these 40 people? Yes, with their coupons.

Speaker 2:

Yes, All right, I have. That's not us, or would you rather segment? I've got a few questions for you guys. So this is funny. So I just was flipping through and I found this one and I can already tell you Ash's answer that are being here, so I will be Ashley, would you rather be chronically underdressed or overdressed? So Ashley is definitely overdressed.

Speaker 4:

Overdressed.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I think I'm with Lisa. I would be underdressed, I would be comfy.

Speaker 3:

I want to be comfy too. Did I tell you what happened? I'm near as Eve to me. No, I went to a wedding which is beautiful wedding, for my first American conformal wedding. What?

Speaker 2:

do you guys do in Ireland? Just get it out.

Speaker 3:

It's always sweat pants.

Speaker 2:

So I mean, you would never ever ever wear jeans to like a wedding Right.

Speaker 5:

So like when I see some of those photos.

Speaker 3:

I'm like, oh my goodness, but you wouldn't wear a long dress, so I hadn't. I didn't plan and Scott was like you could wear your Celtic woman dress. I'm like I'm not wearing my Celtic woman dress. Don't be ridiculous. And I have loads of lovely dresses. I have beautiful long dresses, but they're mostly white.

Speaker 4:

So I'm not going to wear white anyway.

Speaker 3:

Exactly, yeah, so I had this gorgeous dress from our friend Emily, a beautiful like pink satin jacket dress, and I was delighted with myself until I turned up to the wedding and I was the only one in a short dress.

Speaker 4:

Really, yes, there are wearing long dresses. They're all wearing long dresses.

Speaker 3:

I nearly. I wanted the ground to open up, and so that's not true. The grandmother of the groom had a short dress on, but I guess you're probably quicker than her.

Speaker 2:

I was going to say, I nearly died.

Speaker 3:

I nearly died, but at least it was formal though your dress, like it was, I was felt better in pants, so really, I'm going to go underdressed, yes, underdressed, oh yeah, yeah, I hate wearing dresses. I hate wearing dresses, always have.

Speaker 2:

Always. So that's kind of how I would guess to be divided yeah.

Speaker 5:

Really, you and Ashley overdressed.

Speaker 3:

You and Ashley overdressed me and Trisha.

Speaker 5:

Yes, I would definitely rather overdress.

Speaker 2:

I've had to wear heels today and I want my scrubs and tennis shoes back. Really bad.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, no overdress.

Speaker 2:

All right. Well, this is how I think we all better answer this one way, even if we have different thoughts. Would you rather have another 10 years with your partner, or one night stand with your celebrity crush, which we can't answer that without saying 10 years with a partner?

Speaker 3:

I don't have a celebrity crush, but I would obviously pick 10 years my partner obviously.

Speaker 2:

Obviously, who would your celebrity crush? You see, you've had no celebrity crush oh. Ryan Reynolds. Me, matthew McConnay had Ryan Reynolds Really.

Speaker 5:

Oh yeah, I don't know I would still pick that one.

Speaker 3:

I probably go to Tentor Stabler from SVU yeah.

Speaker 4:

Honestly, I used to think Ryan Gosling, but then, oh, yeah, I don't get it. Yeah, I know, but then the Barbie thing just kind of came out.

Speaker 2:

But he was the notebook, though, right. What's the new book?

Speaker 4:

The new book, the new book and the notebook he was, but then after that it was like and apparently in real life he's the nicest guy.

Speaker 5:

I have heard that yeah he has a great reputation.

Speaker 4:

He has a really good reputation. I think Ryan Reynolds does too, though. Yeah, I love him. Have you watched the Road to Wrexham.

Speaker 3:

No, oh, it's the best show. It's about the soccer team in Wales that he bought with Rob McElhaney from Always Sunny in Philadelphia and it's like a real life. Ted Lasso it's. I still haven't seen it, I haven't watched it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it, I haven't seen it.

Speaker 2:

I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it, I haven't seen it. Chris Hemsworth. No, oh no, chris Hemsworth is you don't like him.

Speaker 3:

No, no, he's very, very pretty. He had the door open for me at World Gym here in Peach Street City and I didn't know who he was, I would start working out. He opened the door and I walked in and I went ''Thank you, you're good'. I thought he's Australian.

Speaker 2:

And again I would have meant he's lifting weights really well, that worked for him.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, didn't even notice, Walked straight past, walked into the world gym that you know the class that he has in the world gym and the ladies are like oh my God, thor just opened the door for you. I'm like who Thor? I didn't know who he was. I've never watched. Oh gosh the.

Speaker 2:

Avengers. Yeah, this is actually good. When you didn't answer the question. Oh, I have just the 10 years. I have obviously 10 years, I mean, yeah, the war, yeah, 10 years. They're not that big.

Speaker 4:

It's not that hot, little hot.

Speaker 2:

Not that hot, so here's another. This is actually. This is a tough one. Would you rather lose your sight or your memories? Sight, sight, me too. I thought that would be tough.

Speaker 4:

No, me too, that's my sight.

Speaker 3:

I'm a sight, I'm a sight.

Speaker 4:

Oh gosh, but I have clients when, like I, don't know when people forget who you are.

Speaker 5:

That's so hard when people have to mention things like that and they forget yeah.

Speaker 4:

That's.

Speaker 2:

This is funny. So I know Lisa's answer. Uh-oh, here we go. Would you rather give up Gosh? I know my answer too. We're opposite, I think. Would you rather give up air conditioning and heating for the rest of your life, or give up the internet for the rest of your life?

Speaker 3:

Oh, it depends where I live Air conditioning If I'm in a hard-lip.

Speaker 2:

I give up air conditioning and heating. I live in Georgia.

Speaker 3:

I live in Georgia, I'd give up your internet.

Speaker 5:

I don't know.

Speaker 3:

Well, if could, then I would still have Amazon, so I could like purchase, that's kind of over the internet right. That's true. Yeah, okay, I give up.

Speaker 4:

Oh my gosh, that's so hard for me, she's like I don't know.

Speaker 3:

Oh, I give up. I think I give up cleaning and cooling, I think that's what.

Speaker 4:

I'm all about. I would give up. Me too. I think I was throwing more clothes. I would take off more clothes, I guess.

Speaker 2:

All right, let's see here. Well, I know Lisa's answer to this one too Would you rather stay in during a snow day or build a fort?

Speaker 3:

Oh, stay in.

Speaker 2:

You're not going to build a snow fort. Nope, nope.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, I'm with you on that one.

Speaker 2:

Okay, I'll give you one more here. We're like no, I know.

Speaker 5:

I know Lisa's answer to this one. This is funny. I'm obviously very vocal.

Speaker 2:

Mine is opposite. Would you rather have a personal maid or a personal chef, a maid Chef?

Speaker 3:

Chef A maid Chef 100%. Someone to change those sheets. I hate that job.

Speaker 4:

Okay, I've got one more. Okay, I was going to say we could switch, we'll live together and you can cook.

Speaker 2:

I could cook for you. I thought we'd like clean. Yep, that's good trade and I'll just hang out the other day.

Speaker 3:

We could all lift. We could all lift. You could open the wine. Yes, I'd decorate wine.

Speaker 1:

I'd decorate wine. I'd decorate wine, we'd have a lovely house.

Speaker 2:

You could clean it and I'll cook.

Speaker 3:

I know Pour the wine.

Speaker 2:

I'm going to make sure it's nice. It's really good. Who knew? Okay, would you rather be 11 foot tall or 9 inches tall? I'm like right in the middle, so I could go either way with that one.

Speaker 3:

Oh my goodness, I wouldn't want to be 11 foot tall, so 9 inches. I'm good at 9 inches.

Speaker 2:

You carry me right to get accomplished Stepped on them, I'd be mighty. I can't imagine meeting like Either. Yeah, neither 9 inches.

Speaker 3:

I don't like your Well. According to last year, I think that was the length of our clitoris.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it's a million meters Exactly.

Speaker 4:

You could probably hang on to somebody's bottom of their pants and just get a ride. Crawl up, yep, crawl up, here we go.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I don't know. I just would have liked to have 5 foot, 4 foot, 11 and 3 quarters. Never hit the 5 foot mark. No, now I'm like going the other direction, I guess.

Speaker 4:

So what have your kids lately said when you said something and they said I have no idea what that is, what Like, based on what we grew up with, based on what we grew up with.

Speaker 5:

I know.

Speaker 4:

I'm trying to think of what it was, but my daughter was like what is that? And I was like what do you mean? What is that Like it was something that was? I was like my mom says bridges. I was like, oh, we didn't have that. My mom says bridges.

Speaker 2:

Do you guys say You're britches? We didn't have britches.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, no, no, we wouldn't have that. We would say oh no, no, we never use britches. Britches are the things that go over your pants, right?

Speaker 4:

Well, they are pants. No, they are pants, oh, they are pants. Yeah, they're pants Like you're putting it at britches.

Speaker 3:

Oh no, we would never say britches, that was from Oklahoma. The musical that's the only time I ever heard of us.

Speaker 2:

I did like Oklahoma, by the way, that is what musical I did. Oh, I hate that musical. Oh, that's funny.

Speaker 3:

Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2:

No, I was in that show. Are you serious? Yeah, I like it.

Speaker 4:

I love, love the music man is the worst.

Speaker 3:

Oh, the music man is the worst. God, it's the worst ever. Except Hugh Jackman was in that movie.

Speaker 4:

I never, I cannot.

Speaker 3:

I cannot cannot, cannot. Wells Fargo Wagon is like no, oh yeah no no, no, I know 76, 12, oh God, no, I cannot say for that. Oh God, oh my God, I hated that show.

Speaker 4:

What a beautiful morning.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I used to have to get up. I used to have to crawl up into the house. There was a lovely man that used to hold a ladder for me as I was going up to the house to sing oh what a beautiful morning. And every single, every single night I would pull my dress up and I'd have it under my arms. I'd go. I hate this show.

Speaker 4:

I'd be like here we go, so I'd go.

Speaker 2:

oh, what a beautiful morning, my gosh, my mom was going to love you even more knowing you were in. Oklahoma. She loved that musical.

Speaker 5:

She used to sing that song. I love it. I was a lorry.

Speaker 4:

You were a lorry, I was so sweet. The lead, yes, girl.

Speaker 3:

Yes, yeah, no, I hated every minute of it. So what I just sang? I?

Speaker 2:

would have a beautiful morning. Lisa's cringing. She's like no, no, no, no, I'm sure singing that just with the actual show.

Speaker 3:

But then I did go and see it. Did you see it when I was in Serenby? No, so years ago when we moved here to Peachly City first. We have a lovely little area like to the west here west, yes called Serenby, and it's like an artist retreat and it's gorgeous houses and restaurants. It's lovely, really, really, really nice. So they used to have, they used to have a theater group there and they started to Did they not have that anymore?

Speaker 3:

No, it's a long story, uh-oh yeah. So they used to have theater group. They are reigniting. It just ran into a little bit of trouble, but they had this. They did, miss Saigon.

Speaker 4:

That's right, it was outdoors.

Speaker 5:

I remember that it was outdoors.

Speaker 3:

So they did Miss Saigon and like a helicopter came in.

Speaker 5:

Oh my goodness.

Speaker 3:

So friends of ours asked did we want to go and see Oklahoma there? And I was like I don't know. I thought so but anyway went and it was phenomenal. It was the first time I literally sat there going. I didn't realize this is what this show was about.

Speaker 2:

Having spent three weeks doing it every night, I saw they did Sleepy Hollow years ago. I would just either Sleepy Hollow. They did that every.

Speaker 3:

Halloween. It was good Titanic there and I want to see Titanic there, but it got rained out. So the boat was in the middle of the lake in Titanic, but it got flooded so we had to watch it in a shed. Oh no. With no boat, no boat, that's not good yeah.

Speaker 4:

But yes, there you go. Latchkey kids, that was what it was. Remember a latchkey kid? Are you a latchkey kid? Like you have the key, like you go home and no one's home and you unlock the door. Oh, I don't know about that?

Speaker 2:

Oh my gosh Latchkey. We need a segment every week if you teach us a word.

Speaker 3:

An Irish word, an Irish word A bad one, or either let's go bad today let's go bad. Well, I've told you all about Irish words.

Speaker 2:

I give everyone thumbs up, I give everyone thumbs up.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, if I use them and people don't know. Okay, give us any word, any word. What do we say at home? Well, I'll have a thing, I think. Before we end, I'll think of one that my mom uses all the time. Try to think what was so I?

Speaker 2:

farted a word last week that made me old.

Speaker 3:

I was talking about dothory.

Speaker 4:

Dothory, dothory.

Speaker 3:

A dothory, elf fecker. That's like a dothory the way you just said that.

Speaker 2:

It was an old elf effort is what I just heard, fecker fecker, which is not a bad word.

Speaker 3:

Fecker is not a bad word.

Speaker 4:

It sounds like a bad word, yeah, no, it sounds like a bad word, so we replaced the U with an E not to make it a bad word.

Speaker 3:

So you can go feck off. That's not a bad word.

Speaker 2:

It's actually Sam Frick. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, he's a feck.

Speaker 3:

Dothory elf. Elf fecker would be an old man who's like stupid.

Speaker 5:

It's stupid and then we called him Dothory elf fecker.

Speaker 2:

Dothory elf fecker. We need to use that one yeah and your L one.

Speaker 3:

We say that as well. Well, I wouldn't say it, but there are people that would go. How's your L one Meaning? How's your mom L one? L one, a A U L and then A U L. No, just one A U L.

Speaker 4:

Like old, oh old L L, old old L one.

Speaker 3:

Interesting yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I don't want to be Dothory.

Speaker 5:

We can not be Dothory.

Speaker 2:

No, dothory, dothory, Dothory, dothory, dothory.

Speaker 3:

Dothory Doth.

Speaker 2:

I'm still trying to say Monastery, monastery. I just said that, right, yeah, so Dothory.

Speaker 3:

Dothory. Oh, very good, you sound like you're from the depths of County Cork.

Speaker 2:

Yes, I definitely sound Irish. We need to go to Ireland.

Speaker 3:

Oh, I know I'm not the best tour guide but because I'm just like a Mercedes girl so I didn't really leave Dublin much growing up. But you'd love it, you would love it, I would love it. I would love it Great fun.

Speaker 2:

If I don't drink Guinness, I feel like I wouldn't fit in. I don't drink Guinness, I know you either.

Speaker 3:

You drink Guinness by the time you leave. Really, yes, with a little bit of blackcurrant in it, it's the best. I promise, I promise because I don't really drink Guinness either. I have to hand back.

Speaker 5:

I feel like Irish passport. I don't eat potatoes.

Speaker 2:

There's a back way. I don't drink Guinness. Are you sure you're Irish?

Speaker 3:

Yeah, Most definitely.

Speaker 4:

So the city of Dublin would be most similar to what In the US.

Speaker 3:

Probably well, big city.

Speaker 4:

So it's a city like New York, atlanta, but it's tiny.

Speaker 3:

It's the size of Peachtree City, so it's like it's tiny, but so it's, and it's not like, if you've been to London, it's smaller than London, but that's the capital city of Ireland, so it's where everything happens.

Speaker 4:

But is it like skyscrapers? No, you don't have skyscrapers. Yeah, no, interesting.

Speaker 3:

I think I can't even. I don't even know what our tallest building is, but it's not skyscrapery at all. That's just European, european cities, don't have skyscrapers, so, like when Irish people come over, we spend the whole time just looking up.

Speaker 4:

You're like, wow, that's nice, that's so cool.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, sorry, we don't have anything like that.

Speaker 4:

But you never went outside the city, really.

Speaker 3:

No, not growing up. No, all my family's from. Dublin. I had no relatives outside of Dublin and we didn't travel much. My dad was a teacher and my mom's stayed home, so we didn't do much at all. So suddenly, since I met Scott, he made me travel around Ireland to see places. I was like, oh, this is amazing, interesting. It's so cool, though. The West Coast of Ireland is beautiful.

Speaker 4:

So how did you get into Riverdance?

Speaker 3:

Oh, because I was doing a show. I was doing Oklahoma and I just finished Oklahoma, Steve you had a dinner at Oklahoma which you didn't like.

Speaker 2:

You would have had dinner.

Speaker 4:

If you were not playing Laurie, you would have never won, so I went from doing Oklahoma to this thing called pantomime, which is like I think I told you before it's like a nursery show, you know, but it's with adult humor in it and pop songs and stuff.

Speaker 5:

So I did that.

Speaker 3:

And while I was doing that, I was asked to audition for Riverdance. I didn't even know there was singers in Riverdance and I went to my audition very, very hungover, because it was the opening night of Panto and my audition was the next day. So after the opening night of Panto we all went for drinks. I didn't drink at this stage, but I had loads of drinks that night because it was so much fun and I went into the audition the next day, so hungover.

Speaker 3:

And I really think that's the reason why I got it, because I hadn't slept a lot.

Speaker 5:

You were stressed, my voice wasn't tired Would you not?

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I was not stressed in the first no worries, I was like whatever, and I probably did the best audition I ever did. Wow, and that's yeah. So when did you crush on Scott? Scott was the first person I met when I joined Riverdance.

Speaker 5:

Really.

Speaker 3:

The very first person I met him in the bar. I came down my room had flooded when I went into my room. I arrived in Raleigh Durham. I'd never been to America, never done anything, had done two flights to get here On my own, cry the whole way Because I'd left a boyfriend at home at the time. I cried the whole way and walked into the bar because my room was flooded. When I got into us and there were a change in my room, they told me to wait and Scott was the first person I met.

Speaker 5:

And we were just best friends from the Minnes.

Speaker 3:

We met each other.

Speaker 4:

So when did you dump the boyfriend back home?

Speaker 3:

Well, the boyfriend back home kind of dumped me, no way, liar, liar, liar.

Speaker 2:

He did, he did.

Speaker 3:

We had agreed I was going over, that we were going to go our separate ways, and which was fine. We hadn't been together very long at all, very, very short time. So we were, and he was older than I was and he came over. He actually came over to visit me while I was in Riverdance, when myself and Scott weren't an item at that stage, but yeah, so that was kind of weird. And then he kind of dumped me again when he came over and then something kind of got together. But we were very close.

Speaker 2:

Isn't it crazy that we've said this before. Obviously it's really big into that, but like had that not have happened you would have missed that and then you would have got your kids Like it's just crazy how everything it is crazy how everything happens. Like you know, it's just.

Speaker 3:

I mean, when you get older you appreciate that more. I'm always amazed. I'm like how do two people who are raised so differently like myself and Scott are different sides of the world as well, so like nothing was similar in our growing up how do you meet somebody and like fall in love with them and then you're expected to like kind of coexist and like everything is so different and all the variables that happen. It's kind of mad.

Speaker 4:

So how long have you all been?

Speaker 3:

together 24 years. Wow, yeah, 24 years this year.

Speaker 2:

Wow, yep, since she was like six years old. Well, he was much younger than me.

Speaker 4:

But you knew, you knew when you met him kind of like no, no, I didn't know, no, no no, no, not at all.

Speaker 3:

I just we, just like there was. There was obviously we, there was a connection between us. But, like I was not looking for a relationship, he was not looking for a relationship. He had just come out of a relationship too. So it was yeah, no, we weren't. And we were just like literally just friends, but best of friends. We knew everything about each other. And then when you're living together on the road, as well spent 24 hours day with each other.

Speaker 3:

So you get to know each other very quickly and I also sometimes go. That was really bad because he knew all the bad things about me. Because he was my friend, I didn't care.

Speaker 2:

But you guys are still like, you guys are like best buddies now, like it's so cool. Yeah, absolutely yeah, yeah, be lost with them.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, Aw, so you really would pick ten years versus versus Thor.

Speaker 2:

She's like oh really.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I don't even know he's Australian too, that's true, that's true, yes, yes.

Speaker 2:

So our fab finds. I didn't bring anything, but I actually had a thought on that. Do you guys have any fab finds for this week? Anything you've gotten that you just love? I got all my.

Speaker 5:

I didn't bring this. Did you get it? Did you try it? I love it. Do you love it? I do I do? What other one?

Speaker 2:

did you guess. So they actually. So I got the primer.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, that's awesome. I like that.

Speaker 2:

I don't know that like I love the eye thing more. I would decide if I love the primer. But they sent two free gifts that are like full-size. I was like, oh it says everyone loves free gifts. And it was their mascara, which I really like this lovely yeah. And then it was a liquid eyeliner which I like Very nice. Yeah, I liked it.

Speaker 3:

I like them. I'm trying to think what I bought. I don't think I bought. I may not have bought anything this week.

Speaker 2:

I bought something that I don't know like. I think it's worth it. I think so, but it's more like it's not like the Dyson hair dryer but it's expensive hair dryer. It was Ella Bella but it yeah. I, it's a little Instagram sales thing, but I actually I think I like it.

Speaker 5:

I've used the.

Speaker 2:

Dyson one Look, I haven't used it. I think I don't think I can make myself spend that much on a hair dryer.

Speaker 5:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I think I can make my hair enough for the week to do that. But this one it has like magnetic ends on it.

Speaker 5:

So, like you, can change like differently, if you want to diffuse or anything you just clip them on off, really quick it's pretty cool, I like it.

Speaker 2:

But I also thought of a fab mine when we were talking, when she said our friend Emily I don't know if you're on this, it's funny because Lisa always nab stuff that I'm like, I like that. And then I'm like Lisa's like. I'll take it. I'm like oh, I like it. I hope we didn't wear different sizes Okay. But so are we we. This underground runway is so cool, but it's a Facebook and she has different items that people wear, like one time.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, and so there are like the runway that you buy it.

Speaker 2:

Yes, you buy it but it's really discounted. So you she's actually talked to. We've talked about coming on sometimes.

Speaker 5:

She's so cool yeah.

Speaker 2:

It's really so. She has different things that, like I said, it's like a designer that would normally be $800. It's $80 or whatever.

Speaker 3:

So, yeah, we need to buy you stuff from her, though I think I've led a fander through you, I think it was.

Speaker 2:

I mean, you have a lot of friends that use her, so she's fab. Yeah, it's great, it's great.

Speaker 3:

So I'm I'm sponsored by Spanx leggings because of her. Oh really, yeah, so many Spanx, I live in leggings. She's great.

Speaker 2:

You're always the one that naps the Spanx. I like those. Oh, Lisa got them.

Speaker 3:

Lisa's like done, done, got them. Remember. This is quick, you have to be quick.

Speaker 2:

It's like, yes, underground runway.

Speaker 4:

Yes, great deal. It's on Facebook yes.

Speaker 2:

So you can join. And then there's Watch out.

Speaker 3:

Lisa, I sent you an invite to Okay. Amazing.

Speaker 2:

But yeah, she's just, I've talked to her about coming on.

Speaker 3:

She said just like to come on. I thought it'd be so cool.

Speaker 2:

Well, she was responsible for my pink dress that I wore. Really it's the wedding.

Speaker 4:

Oh really, who did your pink dress for the?

Speaker 3:

for the show. Oh no, I had the black dress. I had the pink shoes. My black dress I actually bought here in Georgia in a place called Cinderella's Gains in Lilburn. It was so pretty, oh, that shop was so good, I could have bought 10 dresses, really. Yeah, it was actually. It was really great, really great. I love the dress.

Speaker 4:

I loved it. It was gorgeous, it was so, it was so amazing. You liked it Amazing.

Speaker 3:

Thank you, I loved it. I loved it.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, so did you get the.

Speaker 4:

did you get the dress from Emily, the pink or the short 20th? I didn't. Are you telling me, like, did she dress you in it or did you buy it? No, no, no, I'm honest. I never worn it because I was like where am I going to wear this dress? Oh my gosh, how do you know if you're going to fit into it?

Speaker 3:

I don't what about other stuff. It's just really really good, like if you know your size and like. So there's been times that I've picked up stuff and I I got I like this. When she's like that's not going to fit you Because she knows what I bought stuff from her that actually fit me she goes that's that's not going to work for you, but am she's really good at saying it's?

Speaker 5:

a small, but it fits more like a medium larger大的 four, but it's more like yeah, yeah, so she's really good at saying that.

Speaker 2:

I think she does learn her customers and then she has a place to eat like a shop you can go try. I never do, I just order. And Is she here?

Speaker 5:

Return your stuff if they don't fit, that's great. No, it's brilliant.

Speaker 3:

She has a great little smiley.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it's like a more personable plush mark kind of thing where you're getting designer things, but it just counts. But she just knows her. She's really good at descriptions and I think the people that work with her and do you see different? She'll try on stuff or have people try on stuff and show pictures. It's cool. I'll invite you to the show.

Speaker 4:

Yes, please do.

Speaker 5:

There you go, then I'll be competing against you and Lisa.

Speaker 4:

I'll be like watch out for us, here we come.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it's cool, but yeah, this is my Fabfines, fabfines. Yeah, I have no fabfines.

Speaker 4:

Let's make it. I don't like to go to you either.

Speaker 3:

I don't think I bought anything different.

Speaker 2:

I shouldn't have fabfines because I bought all my little Mac-y-ash from your last fabfine.

Speaker 4:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Well, I forgot what this stuff Ashley talked about. I was thinking about that today, my friend.

Speaker 3:

Wonder something. I looked it up and then I was like I'm never gonna do it.

Speaker 5:

Why.

Speaker 3:

Because I never put like color stuff. I hate getting marks on my clothes.

Speaker 5:

That's true.

Speaker 2:

Scott and I went to a fancy dinner a while back in Atlanta and I wore my little pleather shorts and I wanted to have my legs shimmery and so I put the tan or shimmery stuff on, kind of similar to that. So I asked for my bleeds. But my legs looked really good and then we did an Uber and we went ahead and did the nice Uber and when I got out of the car I saw my leg prints in Carly Brandio.

Speaker 2:

I was like, oh yes, oh no, I'm not sure it washes off, but I was like, oh my gosh, you can see my whole entire print on his leather seats.

Speaker 3:

That's so, and again, because I hate changing my sheets, I don't want them on my sheets.

Speaker 4:

We just need to do a switch off.

Speaker 5:

I'll come wash your sheets.

Speaker 4:

She's just coming to cut for me and we're good I got you and I'm just gonna hang in there, do anything.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, show her up in the wind. She's gonna design the place and make pretty yeah, exactly, that's true as well. That would actually be if I wasn't a nurse practitioner if I wasn't an attorney. I would like to be a designer. I love designing things and matching things yeah.

Speaker 4:

I think I'd be a flight attendant, Would you? I mean?

Speaker 5:

just I don't know if I.

Speaker 4:

I deal with people, so I could deal with people.

Speaker 3:

I just want to travel, Just travel and just you can be a pilot and then you don't have to deal with it. Because, honestly, I think if I was a flight attendant. I would look at people and go. Are you actually stupid?

Speaker 2:

No, don't you do that also, especially like, yeah, like when you see the videos of people like filming how rude people are to the flight attendants.

Speaker 3:

I literally judge people by how nice they are to flight attendants.

Speaker 4:

I know and the flight attendants I work with, they say it's just, it could be miserable. I can't imagine.

Speaker 2:

Well, I think too a lot of times like the flight attendants have no control over the weather or flight delays or anything like that, and so you're mad because you're gonna miss a connecting flight, and so I bet they get a lot of just indirect you know, just frustrations.

Speaker 4:

I know, I can't imagine.

Speaker 4:

I think I told you last year when I was going to Miami to visit my son and the girl next to me was on the phone with this guy and they were just like and the flight attendant was like you've got to get on the phone, hang up the phone or we're gonna go back to the gate. And she wouldn't do it. So we literally went back to the gate and then she wouldn't get off. So we had to all get off, the police come and get her off, and then we have to wait and it's literally before we left. It was like 10, 30 at night. We were leaving at like 8, 8.45,. It's 10, 30 at night. That's so rude.

Speaker 4:

And I'm texting my husband like I'm good to be so late and you have no idea why. Just because this girl would not get off the phone. I don't know why people don't yeah, why don't people take that seriously?

Speaker 2:

I don't know it was weird Because I don't know what happens if you don't have an airplane mode Like I'm terrified.

Speaker 4:

I'll look at. I'll see people that are still on their phone on the plane. But I didn't have an airplane mode. But I mean, if they come by twice and tell you and she's sitting right next to me and I want to look at her and be like, get off the phone. Like did they ever tell you twice, get off.

Speaker 4:

They were like having to Well and then the sad thing was her family was with her and there was, like it looked like an aunt or sister and then a two or three younger children. They all had to get off. Everyone missed their flight and I'm like you just ruined it, not just for yourself, but all these poor people and the kids were crying. I mean it was awful. It was awful. That's crazy. Yeah, I don't know. I don't get the whole rude airplane flying people, I'm just like. I'm the rules, just follow the rules.

Speaker 2:

So we were talking before we started recording about future guests and we have a lot of people in our inbox right now as we're working on our calendar. But what is something you guys would like to see like out of our guest? Like what? Like we already know, actually she's very excited about mediums and, oh, yes, Now I want to fly to attendant.

Speaker 3:

I could get you 50.

Speaker 4:

Yes, we know there's a lot of the craziest flight attendant stories that we're given.

Speaker 2:

I mean, there's some crazy stuff Like the. Scott mile mile mile.

Speaker 4:

Oh gosh, can you imagine the stories I'm so gross.

Speaker 2:

I don't understand you do that Like wait because it's very, it's very, yeah, I can't even like turn around in there.

Speaker 3:

No, yeah, no, Thank you.

Speaker 2:

It's like very key in there. I know it's so scary because there's always P on the floor.

Speaker 5:

Like how does it smell?

Speaker 2:

I'll never be a member. Nope, unless it's.

Speaker 3:

Or and a private yeah.

Speaker 2:

With Ryan, ryan, oh no, I'm still picking the 10 years with my partner guys On the private flight On the private plane.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, that would be interesting, I think. I think Ashley's will be interesting. The media I think a sex therapist would be interesting. I'd love to hear what the viewers think. Yes, we have an audience, would think would be interesting.

Speaker 2:

Our audience too. Okay, guys, everyone listening. We need you to follow us on social media Facebook and Instagram and we need you to send us topics that you want to hear. Send us questions. Yep, download us on. Your actually need to follow us on your favorite platform so you get notified on new episodes.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, which are coming out for season two. Yeah, tell us what you want to talk about here. Yeah, we'll talk about anything. We definitely will. Oh, we can talk about that.

Speaker 2:

I think it's so cool because we have different political views.

Speaker 3:

And we're going through this year with talking about politics, so we show how you can have different views and not be a-holed each other.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, correct.

Speaker 2:

So have your opinion and respect others Absolutely.

Speaker 1:

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